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elanagold
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Soon to be divorced
      #388369 - 04/11/08 12:13 PM

My soon to be ex is a gambler and an alcoholic. We own a house that my parents helped pay for. Now he gambled (yet again) and I want a divorce. He said he will take 1/2 the house and I can have sole custody of the 3 boys. So he ends up making out like a bandit while I have the sole responsibility of raising the kids? I also have just started a new RN job; and people tell me he can ask for alimony? Where is the fairness? What can I do to stop him?

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Re: Soon to be divorced [Re: elanagold]
      #388840 - 04/12/08 12:53 PM

I wouldn't go on what people are telling you... I would talk to a lawyer and find out exactly what you're up against. Some lawyers don't charge for a consultation.

On another note, I would think having sole custody would be the best since you say he's a gambler and alcoholic. He just might be handing you the golden ticket in my eyes. I know a lot of people who fight for sole custody because of similier situations and aren't awarded it and their kids are put through the wringer with the unfit parent.

Best wishes.


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