beanstalk
newbie
Reged: 04/11/08
Posts: 41
|
|
Uh, no sh_t. I admitted to not making a wise decision with the CO and that I'll just pay the extra money. And that I had crappy legal representation.
And why does everyone think NCP is a he???
|
JennyLynn
Carpal \'Tunnel
Reged: 07/14/05
Posts: 31656
|
|
It's natural to assume :). I keep forgetting you're the man.
|
cincsu
Carpal \'Tunnel
Reged: 06/02/05
Posts: 4686
Loc: residence in AZ, case in CA
|
|
my DH had this same issue. BM wrote in her papers she paid $600 per month. the judge ordered DH to pay "his 50% or $300 per month directly to the provider" the provider wrote asking for more money, BM changed daycares to a more expensive daycare. DH continued to pay his $300 per month. when BM complained in front of the judge the judge told her she wasn't understanding the CO and that my DH was following the order. so, the NCP does what the CO says....exactly. if you wanted it different you should have written it different.
--------------------
wife of 1, mother of 2, stepmother of .3475902453
|
Cinder2
Carpal \'Tunnel
Reged: 06/02/05
Posts: 4361
Loc: Southern California
|
|
[quote]And why does everyone think NCP is a he??? [/quote]
Probably because you keep referring to him/her as "the NCP" instead of calling him/her "my ex-wife" or "my ex husband". We have no way of knowing what sex either one of you are so far.
Cinder
|
Avaya
Carpal \'Tunnel
Reged: 02/09/06
Posts: 9816
Loc: Arkansas
|
|
Because you wont say that it's not.
And...
My post above was BEFORE I read the clarification about how much daycare is per week.......
--------------------
Eternity is too long to be wrong.
|
beanstalk
newbie
Reged: 04/11/08
Posts: 41
|
|
Does it really matter what sex is NCP or CP? Gender shouldn't make a differnce at all. I do appreciate your feedback Cinder.
|
Relayer
Carpal \'Tunnel
Reged: 03/13/07
Posts: 9506
Loc: Moorglade Mover
|
|
And what do you pay him that enables him to go to work every day in order to produce income to provide support for the child?
--------------------
GO CUBBIES!!!!
|
beanstalk
newbie
Reged: 04/11/08
Posts: 41
|
|
Avaya - first post CLEARLY states the $310 is an ADDITIONAL expense.
|
Avaya
Carpal \'Tunnel
Reged: 02/09/06
Posts: 9816
Loc: Arkansas
|
|
No, gender doesn't matter, but everytime someone refers to NCP as a him, you pop off with 'why do you assume NCP is a him?'. EVERY thread.
NCP is a pilot. Are there women pilots? I'm sure there are, but rare. So IMO, since it's rare, I'd sort of think that those who were willing to enter a field that's not typical for their gender, well I'd expect them to have a little character with their ambition; and along with that character, I'd expect that they'd not yank a CP around like this one does you. So I think NCP is a man because he probably wouldn't have to work as hard in that field as a woman would and therefore might not have as much character and would fit more with the attributes you claim this particular NCP has.
--------------------
Eternity is too long to be wrong.
Edited by Avaya (04/23/08 11:28 AM)
|
beanstalk
newbie
Reged: 04/11/08
Posts: 41
|
|
I don't really understand your question. All I know is that NCP took a job AFTER the birth of our daughter, that made the pay go from 80K a year to 18K a year. I don't see how that was in the best interest of the child.
|
Previous
Index
Next
Threaded
[Re: 
Edit
Reply
Quote
