icwal
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BillWebb
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Unfortunately, your fear of the unknown (and change) has more power over you than your anger over his affair. His attempts at making things easier for you are actually keeping you from taking the steps that you need to take for your children and yourself.
I was once exactly where you are. Once I stepped off into the abyss, I found that the change was as much positive as it was negative, and it wasn't really an abyss after all.
Find a way to talk with an attorney.
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notsosunny
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Dear Prayful.
I feel for you and the situation you find yourself. There is alot of good advise on this forum ( especially the advise about you protecting yourself and your children fiancially )Don't let him dictate " what " he is going to do for you. I think ( not an expert ) but you should be able to set up temporary orders for support for bills and your children. In a long time marriage YOU have alot of rights, get to a lawyer for help anyway you can. As far as the marriage it sounds like your husband is in a Mid-life crisis. Please try www.divorcebusting.com. There are many forums there that I think would help you. Good luck
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MaritimeGuy
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Yes it's possible you may be able to get him back but do you really want to? How could you ever trust him not to do the same thing down the road if this one doesn't work out for him? I think it's true..he's infatuated. It's a case of the grass being greener on the other side. Most likely it won't be long before he figures out it's just a trick of the light.
You however need to take care of yourself and your children. That's your number one priority. He's chosen to go it on his own. I think the two components of taking care of yourself are understanding your legal rights and at the same time perhaps getting some counselling to help with the emotional toll of all this.
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MeloDee222
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You have received some GREAT responses, pay attention to Renee and MaritimeGuy...they are SPOT ON!
BIG Long distance hugs,
Your friend, MeloDee222
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