Runswithscissors
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I'm sorry, but I didn't turn this into a "Caroline Fest" Julie. I made a comment. You and Dawn have decided to turn it into a "Caroline" fest all on your own.
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Runswithscissors
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Hence why RWS backs OUT of so many of these discussions when FACED with her own inaccuracies and lies. Just like she won't answer the PM forwarding issue. SHe KNOWS for a FACT that she did. She won't answer b/c she'd get bagged in a LIE. I have the PM's to prove it. And Princess knows I do, b/c I forwarded them BACK to her (since they were HERS to begin with).
------->Dawn, I don't back out.... I just don't care... I can something is white and you are going to swear it's black. It's JUST not that IMPORTANT to me to prove or disprove something you say or think. It's a simple concept and it drives you batty.... which I think is funny..... to want to have that much control over a total stranger..... just like you do your ex husband..... CONTROL... and guess what, unlike your husband, I am not your bytch and I will post when I feell ike it, I will respond when I feel like it......and that's okay.
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Laineann
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My mother wasn't married to my father when I was born. I considered myself illegitimate, not a bastard. My stepfather referred to me as the "No-name Bastard" the whole time I was growing up. To me, it was just as derogatory back then as it is now. I find that referring to a child as a bastard is wrong, no matter how you paint it. You can use the dictionary, do tons of research, invent all kinds of scenarios where you can justify it being right to say about a child, but the end result is still the same, it is really hurtful, demeaning, insulting and just plain old wrong. I don't care about what he said or she said or when and how she/he said it or did it, take it from an adult who was called a bastard as a child, it is wrong.
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Laineann
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Quote- I don't back out.... I just don't care... I can something is white and you are going to swear it's black. It's JUST not that IMPORTANT to me to prove or disprove something you say or think. It's a simple concept and it drives you batty.... which I think is funny..... to want to have that much control over a total stranger..... just like you do your ex husband..... CONTROL... and guess what, unlike your husband, I am not your bytch and I will post when I feell ike it, I will respond when I feel like it......and that's okay. [/quote]
:).....Wonderful and healthy attitude!!! :) :)
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ssmom79
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I must withdraw my comment about Katie using the "c" word, I did a search myself, took about three seconds, and only came with four instances and in most of those instances, it was a response to someone else using the term. Ew that word just makes me...ew...it's just gross.
MY BAD. I'm sorry Katie. You do have a potty mouth sometimes though!
The name that came up the most was gr8dad, and I still think it's pretty classless. He made several references to Katie as a YOU KNOW WHAT and ugh....what a typical a-hole.
Of course, I'm just a biotch so what do I know.
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preemiemom
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I have control over my ex? Really? That's news to me. According to everyone else, HE has control and I'm teaching my child to be a doormat. Which is it?
As for the rest.. not addressing it any further. You know what you did, I know what you did since you involved me, and PrincessJ knows what you did. But you slammed her to he!! and back for doing EXACTLY what you did, except she did it to PROTECT you, and YOU did it to make her look bad. So, don't ever call ME pathetic again. If you really didn't care what people think, you wouldn't be spreading about their private conversations to you, to OTHER people to gain sympathy for yourself. That was probably THE biggest attention getting stunt I've seen anyone, here or in real life, pull in a long time. Truly pathetic. And you won't even own up to it. Even more pathetic.
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preemiemom
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Funny how "quote" turned into "Dawn". Just had to go back and edit it to get it in there huh?
You're an interesting character that's for sure.
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katiefedup
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General response....for the last time....I did not single his child and call her a bastard....I said, so you were offering a "bastard child" a better life by signing a BC when you knew you were not the father. or something like that...I did not say, gr8dad your daughter is a bastard. The reason I said what I did is because gr8dad screams foul when a mother argues that they gave up a child for adoption in hopes of the child having a better life. But, he justifies what he did so the child (without a father) could have a better life instead of having no father named on the BC.
note: some people call and think it is an offensive term. Where I come from we don't. Much like, as people have pointed out on this very board that the use of the "colored" "negro" "N" " Mulatto" is acceptable where the come from. By the way what is the acceptable term for a child born when the mother will not name the birth father? Or claims they don't know who he is? Again, I was not attacking the child, but rather make a point to gr8dad. He want's to call BS "cop out"when a women gives up their clild to adoption, but wants to be a hero when a signs a BC of a child when he new damn well she had a birth father all in the name of giving the child a better life with he as the father and denying the BF a chance at fatherhood. Period~
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spinnerdegrassi
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No difference in a guy calling a girl a c*nt, and a girl calling a guy a pr*ck. Same term, different gender.
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gr8Dad
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Here is the quote from the actual post:
"You said you were offering the "bastard" child a better life."
Say what you want, it was a dig. You are FAMOUS for doing that. Saying something insulting and then backpeddling and claiming you were somehow WRONGED.
I DEFENDED you and your child when that poster said something about it. Because while i DO NOT like you, you arenot your child. Yes, I referred to her as a "junkie". If she was using any substance to the level that she required a rehab, she IS an addict. Then you came up with the alcohol thing, and I referred to her as an alcoholic.
The difference is that I used a term associated with a ACTION your daughter DID. My daughter did NOTHING to want your name calling. I am SORRY that your daughter is having issues, and I TRULY hope for her recovery. My main concern in regards to that is your refusal to accept that she is an addict, regardless of the substance or activity. You should really first learn to accept that, because the longer you fail to accept it, you greater the chance that she will begin to do the same, and fall back into the old habits, whatever they are (I do not WANT to know what the issue was, just for the record).
"He want's to call BS "cop out"when a women gives up their clild to adoption, but wants to be a hero when a signs a BC of a child when he new damn well she had a birth father all in the name of giving the child a better life with he as the father and denying the BF a chance at fatherhood."
So the best answer would have been to cease all contact with the mother and the baby (I was TRULY in love with her), and let her raise the child by herself? Keep in mind, SHE would not have contacted Dad, and SHE abused the children to the point that CPS took them from her home. Like I said, I was young, I did what i thought was best at the time. Perhaps I should have pressed the issue, but honestly, at that time, NO ONE in my family had been divorced. I was unaware of the unfairness of the family court or how men were treated. I am saying that what I did was WRONG, and I am doing my best to find the biological father as we speak.
BTW, I DON'T want to call it a cop out when a woman gives up a child for adoption. I am SAYING that if a person things a MAN is wrong for alking away, then a WOMAN is wrong as well. I have only repeated that about 10 times, but as I have said before, you would never let FACTS get in the way of a good bashing, right?
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Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...
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