PrincessJ
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Actually, if she continues to bent and give in, yeah, I'd agree its going to be a long, long 15 years. If she is consistent and stands strong, he'll know better than to pull a 3rd party in to sway her.
It's just like disciplinging a child, IMO. If you show weakness and lack follow thru, the kid is going to know you are a push over. She needs to be strong and follow thru. period, end of sentence.
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JennyLynn
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Bingo PJ!!! I'm in the situation I'm in b/c I've ALLOWED him to walk all over me. And it won't happen anymore. It's the end of an era! :)
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PrincessJ
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[quote]Bingo PJ!!! I'm in the situation I'm in b/c I've ALLOWED him to walk all over me. And it won't happen anymore. It's the end of an era! :) [/quote]
Good for you!
Go, girl!
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preemiemom
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The brevity and flatness of the reply insinuates a "fvck you" attitude. It's called reading between the lines.
And yes, I'm sure the judge is.. and I'm sure he's tired of seeing you already.
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JennyLynn
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Thanks girl :).
I'm feeling rejuvinated! I think I've gone through absolutely every emotion known to man in the last 24 hours, lol.
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PrincessJ
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Based on other posters, I thought brevity and flatness is THE way to respond. Period.
BTW, I didn't see a response posted. Did I miss it?
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JennyLynn
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Ohhhhh no. Brevity and flatness is for the WEAK... ;)
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youngatheart
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Ummm, Jenny rejected a request that she relieve him of all arrears. I do not see that looking bad on her in Court tomorrow. Tomorrow is about HIM and HIS refusal to pay what the Court has ordered. HIS lack of integrity. HIS bad financial choices.
And yeah, one of the bad financial choices is the car. After Jenn bailed him out of one car (that had HER name on it, so smart move there), he chose to go back to the same place he was with another car. And now, because he made that choice, he wants her to forgive the arrears because it makes it difficult for him with his new car? Ummmm...NO.
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1966Gal
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And yes, I'm sure the judge is.. and I'm sure he's tired of seeing you already. +++++++++++
No, I doubt the judge is tired of seeing her. I bet he'll get tired of seeing her ex and his unwillingness to support his kids!
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JennyLynn
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<<No, I doubt the judge is tired of seeing her. I bet he'll get tired of seeing her ex and his unwillingness to support his kids! >>
Exactly.
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