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Re: Give an inch, he wants a mile [Re: 1966Gal]
      #419185 - 06/25/08 10:32 AM

Exactly. I'm not sure how it is Jenn's fault that HE isn't following the Court Order. But, whatever.

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Re: Give an inch, he wants a mile [Re: JennyLynn]
      #419187 - 06/25/08 10:33 AM

[quote]<<No, I doubt the judge is tired of seeing her. I bet he'll get tired of seeing her ex and his unwillingness to support his kids! >>

Exactly. [/quote]

Dead on!

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Re: Give an inch, he wants a mile [Re: 1966Gal]
      #419192 - 06/25/08 10:39 AM

[quote]And yes, I'm sure the judge is.. and I'm sure he's tired of seeing you already.
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No, I doubt the judge is tired of seeing her. I bet he'll get tired of seeing her ex and his unwillingness to support his kids! [/quote]

heh... Everyone is entitled to their opinion. My guess is, eventually, a judge will get tired of JL dragging her ex back to court over the almighty dollar.


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Re: Give an inch, he wants a mile [Re: youngatheart]
      #419195 - 06/25/08 10:42 AM

[quote]Exactly. I'm not sure how it is Jenn's fault that HE isn't following the Court Order. But, whatever. [/quote]

Were his wages garnished? YES. Then he's "following" the order.


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Re: Give an inch, he wants a mile [Re: preemiemom]
      #419202 - 06/25/08 10:48 AM

PM - it's not JL dragging him anywhere. She doesn't even have to be there. This is the state CSE taking him for non-payment of support... and because of the amount, he is facing jail time. It's no different than CSE taking his drivers license or tax return.. they are enforcing the CSE order..

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Re: Give an inch, he wants a mile [Re: JennyLynn]
      #419204 - 06/25/08 10:49 AM

For what it's worth I'm happy to see you drawing a line in the sand. Apparently your ex is so pathetic at managing his own affairs he can't even write his own e-mails. The man needs to grow up. It's not your responsibility to make that happen.

I agree that in light of his current financial situation you may choose to defer accruing interest on the arrearages (not sure if that's a word) but I would by no means forgive them. I expect there are some wonderful things you could do for your son with that money. Considering your ex's experience while he's not earning what he could be now he has the ability to down the road. Then he can start catching up.


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Re: Give an inch, he wants a mile [Re: preemiemom]
      #419205 - 06/25/08 10:51 AM

Were his wages garnished? YES. Then he's "following" the order. (end quote)

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Sure but even if your wages are garnished YOU have the responsibility of the NCP to make sure your CS is paid and in FULL. DH changed jobs, he informed CSE, we got SEVERAL letters and payment stubs from them reminding him what his payment is and that he is supposed to make the payment in FULL. That he can't rely on the garnishment because it might not be right or might be too late. Even the NYS CS web site says that you have to continue to make the CS payment in full if you lose your job. That if you need a reduction due to a financial crisis- it is YOUR responsibility to seek a modification. Until a modification is given that CS is due in full every month.


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Re: Give an inch, he wants a mile [Re: preemiemom]
      #419206 - 06/25/08 10:51 AM

Ummm, JENNY isn't dragging him to Court. DHS is. Child Support Enforcement. THEIR choice.

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Re: Give an inch, he wants a mile [Re: preemiemom]
      #419207 - 06/25/08 10:52 AM

No, he isn't. Nor was he. The order is that he pay $X amount per month. That amount wasn't met. The payments were not made. he IS in contempt, which is why Child Support Enforcement filed the charges.

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Re: Give an inch, he wants a mile [Re: MaritimeGuy]
      #419210 - 06/25/08 10:52 AM

Thanks.

I wouldn't mind knocking off interest in the least. I'm open to negotiation, but not the negotiation his friend sent me last night. I owe my son more than that, and I have to be strong for him.


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