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Runswithscissors
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Re: A spin off of JL's post...

[Re: matilda]
#419601 - 06/25/08 09:24 PM

No.... I've requested 3 times now for the deposits... and he has refused. I have 2 options.... go back and fight it.... and pay another assload or in a year (after initial agreement) ask for increase in his CS).... he does pay a lovely $135.00 to the account now.... but I can go back on my own to CSE and ask that it be reviewed... it's labeled in the papers as CS (even though I don't get it). SO, I decided to take that route. I will do an increase in Oct and put ALL of it into that account.

I looked at it today and it's a whopping $4582.00..... sickening considering it should of been over $37K (according to Gecko when she looked at it). I am thinking he didn't pay this month so I need to go to the bank and ask. My name was finally added to the account in Dec, so I have total access to it...... I check it each month and he's been paying his $135.00 up until this month....

It frustrates me.... but I just haven't had the energy to really fight him on it... I figure it would be better to just wait my year... then get a 1K increase in CS and just add it. I did start another fund on my own and I am putting around $600 a month in it...... for her college.

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matilda
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Re: A spin off of JL's post...

[Re: Runswithscissors]
#419603 - 06/25/08 09:28 PM

The most important thing is that you have custody of your daughter now. Hopefully he was really saving it in a separate account for your D. He seems like the controlling type who wants to play the hero by presenting it to her when she goes to college.

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Runswithscissors
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Re: A spin off of JL's post...

[Re: matilda]
#419605 - 06/25/08 09:32 PM

I would be estatic if that was the case and yeah... he would be a hero!! I'd might kiss him!! >wink<

I just haven't pushed the issue.. it's one of those things you think about.... get pissed off about and then forget about it.... as like you said I do have custody and nothing could ever make me happier!

In his defense, I will say that he does pay that money to the account, he does pay for 1/2 of her activities and he does send money directly to her.... which I am fine with...... it does help!! He just sent me a check today for her camps... so he is doing the right things.. it's just so frustrating that the money isn't where I "thought" it would be... and maybe, just maybe... it is somewhere!!! One can hope!!

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