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Re: Evil stepmom-vent [Re: lovinmykids]
      #419608 - 06/25/08 09:36 PM

You handled it well... poor little thing.... I know that feeling... you just want snap her head off... but you can't!

I am dreading daughter going up on Monday... it's only for 10 days..... but I still dread it... this time Gma won't be there.... she comes back for VB camp and then leaves on the 15th of a month..... ARGH!! I just keep my fingers/toes crossed.

HUGS to you and your son!! I am sorry!


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Re: Which means [Re: KiwiGirl]
      #419617 - 06/25/08 09:43 PM

Yeah revenge would get back at her but I don't teach my kids that. I teach them to treat others the way they want to be treated. Unfortunatly it doesn't seem like J takes that attitude with him to ex's house.

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Re: Which means [Re: lovinmykids]
      #419619 - 06/25/08 09:44 PM

Buy her the ice cream cake and put Thomas on it!

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Re: Evil stepmom-vent [Re: Runswithscissors]
      #419621 - 06/25/08 09:45 PM

----->I am dreading daughter going up on Monday... it's only for 10 days..... but I still dread it... this time Gma won't be there.... she comes back for VB camp and then leaves on the 15th of a month..... ARGH!! I just keep my fingers/toes crossed.

I will pray for your daughter. I hope all goes well.

----->HUGS to you and your son!! I am sorry!

Thank you! I am really trying to do this right but it's hard dealing with it all. I am just glad that my girls' dad isn't hard to deal with like J's dad. makes life easier!


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Re: Which means [Re: greeneyes]
      #419622 - 06/25/08 09:46 PM

-----> Buy her the ice cream cake and put Thomas on it!

LOL! At least she would end up with an ice cream cake.


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Re: Evil stepmom-vent [Re: lovinmykids]
      #419712 - 06/26/08 05:24 AM

Personally, I would call the SM "evil". A CARING person would know what the child would like. Buying a birthday cupcakes that are on clearance? Come on, that is totally wrong no matter WHO does it.

I DO buy clearance bake goods for the kids but NOT for a special day. I have bought some unusual cupcakes and cakes and the kids loved to laugh about it. I know NOT to do for their birthday.

If the SM does the waking up at midnight for her kids, why can't she do it for her step-son? Waking a 13 yo can be a pain and they main complain about it but deep down they know that is how it is done at that home and will be happy (not always showing it) that they are being included in the ritual.


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