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another vent
      #421702 - 06/30/08 11:35 AM

My x called last week, sm had cleaned out most everything they owned.. he didn't even have a bed or a chair.
I had an extra bed in a spare room downstairs and an extra recliner in the den.. so I took both to him last week. They're not spectacular by any means.. but we don't use them more than a few times a year, so not a big deal. The chair was faux leather, in a cream color. Probably looked more expensive than it was.

Anyway, long story short - ex just called and asked when/if I was still bringing the chair... I said I left it in the garage when I left the bed.. he checks again and it's not there.

He called sm - she said it was in their garage.. and she's entitled to 1/2 of everything in it.. so since she left his tools etc, her 1/2 included the chair.

Whatever. I gave it to ex never expecting to get it back.. but why on earth would she want "my" chair in her new place is beyond me..


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Re: another vent [Re: MTmom]
      #421703 - 06/30/08 11:36 AM

So you took stuff to him last week AFTER she moved out and she came back and took them too...wow...she is quite a soul.

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Re: another vent [Re: MTmom]
      #421706 - 06/30/08 11:37 AM

Until he rids himself of her, I wouldn't give him a thing. Ugh. That would make me so irritated.

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Re: another vent [Re: 1004SRS]
      #421711 - 06/30/08 11:43 AM

Apparently she did just that.

I don't know. I have enough issues w/ her right now, I'm certainly not adding the chair to the mix.. but I do feel badly for x.

When x and I split, he loaded what he wanted into the 5th wheel camper and took off. We didn't fight over "things". Even afer he left, every few months or so he would call and ask for xyz thing, and I'd take it over to his mothers. The only thing we ever "fought" over was the gun safe.. and that fight was over who HAD to take it! lol, I ended up selling it w/ the house and sending him a check for 1/2 just so I didn't have to move the dang thing!!

He also said he thinks she took ds' mp3 player and wii. Both of which x and I went 1/2's on. She apparently left the house a wreck.. so he's still looking, but he can't find them yet.

grr. On top of those "toys" he already confirmed that she took ds' bed .. her reasoning was that their child will need the bigger bed soon.. but she took that childs crib too.

Whatever. I don't have anything more to give him right now.. he said he has the camping chairs in his living room for now.


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Re: another vent [Re: MTmom]
      #421715 - 06/30/08 11:47 AM

What a frakin' *&%&*(% (*^&*(%^ $%^&#$#&(^%!!!1!!1!!!

I cannot believe that!

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Re: another vent [Re: MTmom]
      #421716 - 06/30/08 11:47 AM

I'd call the cops on her sorry azz. That is YOUR property, not your ex's. She stole it from him after SHE moved out. Call the cops and have her arrested. She is WAY out of line. And she should be shot.

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Re: another vent [Re: MTmom]
      #421720 - 06/30/08 11:49 AM

He needs to change the locks...

RJ


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Re: another vent [Re: RJ1]
      #421723 - 06/30/08 11:51 AM

I told him to sick ex-mil on her... other than that, it's his issue... at least she left the new bed I took up for ds alone.

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Re: another vent [Re: MTmom]
      #421741 - 06/30/08 12:20 PM

I would still call the cops...she had already moved out, came back and took the chair. What a biotch!!!

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Re: another vent [Re: jil_stevens]
      #421742 - 06/30/08 12:24 PM

It does happen. Many years ago during my brother's divorce, I was in college. His wife moved out. Everyday after he left for work she was going over there getting more and more stuff. So he changed the locks and I stayed there and studied and was a lookout. I'll never forget the day she came, realized the locks were changed, and then realized I was there (I hid my car in the woods). It was hilarious. Her Dad came over and took pictures of me standing in the door. I just kept waving and smiling...fun stuff!

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