hopeornot
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Very interesting topics because the same thing is happening to me with some slight differences. I just like lostwithouther forgot the small stuff with my wife. While I was working, an old college boyfriend from over 10 years ago started emailing my wife. Now she feels she is in love with him again. He is very romantic and the one she always regrets leaving.
She wants a separation to 'clear her head', but she will see him while we are separated. I have asked her why she won't go straight to a divorce if he is her heart's desire, but she says she doesn't want a divorce. We do have young children.
She says she loves me, but doesn't know if she loves me like a wife should love a husband. she will not go to marriage counseling right now, but might see a counselor on her own.
Any thoughts?
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Annie7676
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Again, after going through a LTM ending and being on these MB's, I would say try to save it but if your gut says it isn't working, then you can save yourself much emotional heartbreak by just letting her go. If one partner wants out they want out.
Sure she doesn't want a divorce because she wants to check this out with old BF..understandable but hey this is real life and what are you supposed to do while she asks you to wait and makes you put your life on hold. If you can handle this, its one thing but if not, move forward with the divorce.
Seek a free consult with a lawyer, know your rights, know what will happen so if it does you are prepared and have taken the necessary steps to do it. That may get her attention.
And I dont buy for one bit that forgetting the small stuff makes one stray...sure it has an impact but once the word divorce enters a marriage, somehow those small things can get lost in the shuffle when the harsh reality of divorce comes to play.
Divorce is very hard and equally so when there are kids involved.
Good luck to you and I hope you can save your marriage.
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