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Pooh-Bah
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Anyone else been invloved with a narcissist? I cannot believe how SICK these people are! The worst thing is that they operate by turning EVERYTHING around on someone else! When we went to marriage counseling, it only made things worse. I moved out 3 months ago, and I have been like a sponge- soaking up lots of information on narcissism. They don't change. So, if you get tangled with a narcissist- RUN!!! They will suck the life out of you- and finances are included! I guess I should be glad that I figured it out 19 months into the marriage. Anyone have anything to add on narcissism?
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AUDad
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Reged: 10/11/08
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Yeah, I have something to add.
People that read an article or two, don't know much and are more dangerous than those that are totally ignorant or totally knowledgeable on the subject.
What we have found is that those that call others a narcissist, normally, are the ones that are the TRUE narcissist.
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shortmarriage
Pooh-Bah
Reged: 12/07/08
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Are you the local expert here?
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nolonger
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Reged: 09/15/08
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HA! That's funny because this guy harasses everybody as if the world revolves around him. You'll get used to him and ignore him.
I find there are many different degrees if the narc personality. True people with this disorder make up a tiny percentage of the population. That could very well be who you're dealing with. Was he officially diagnosed?
I'm just curious and hope you don't mind my asking, has he already found your replacement? If so, has this replacement fallen head over heals for him? They are quite charming in the beginning.
I would guess that Drew Peterson has Narc personality disorder. Even he already has a replacement gf.
Good luck to you. I know your pain.
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AUDad
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As a matter of fact, yes we are.
Why? Do you have a problem with that?
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AUDad
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It's a shame that you have that opinion of us, nolonger.
You would do much better at having your own thoughts than emulating the known femin azi PIGS.
Why? Because you thanked us for our advice when we gave it to you and nobody else could answer your question.
So, our reward is you trying to make brownie points with the known femin azi piglets by denigrating us?
Sheeeeesh!
When will people actually look at the advice given and discern for themselves who is right and who is wrong?
Well, because you have shown your true colors, we have shifted you from the "maybe OK" to the definite list of femin azis that do NOT want the truth, but only things that make them feel better about themselves and confirmation of aberrant thoughts of female superiority at the expense of the children.
Welcome to THEIR fold of lies as you just gave to this poster.
Cute how you discredit without proving a person wrong.
In fact, we have read your posts. You don't even know the difference between a hole in the ground and what you represent
axxhole.
You and your ilk (fellow femin azis) would rather disrupt posts from real posters that need help than give real advice.
There are no other posters on this site, period, that know more than us jovial guys from Fathers' Integrity & Rights Movement.
You can only parrot the filth of your fellow femin azis and have no real thoughts of your own, piglet. You know. We know. Anybody that reads what you have to state can see it.
Ask anyone that is not a femin azi PIG as you are.
Beware:
This is a known liar and disrupter of posts.
This is a known bully.
This is a known femin azi.
This is a known troll poster.
Therefore, whatever she states should be regarded with caution and suspect due to her repeated lies, misinformation and posts in multiple names/genders along with just being an "icky" type subhuman.
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shortmarriage
Pooh-Bah
Reged: 12/07/08
Posts: 1773
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Thank you nolonger! I appreciate your post!
I was just reading some of AUDad's other posts and there does seem to be a recurring theme- he sounds like a jerk.
No, my STBX has not been diagnosed. He probably never will be. He's very charming, intelligent and a really good actor! He's a wordsmith- especially at the therapist's office. Although, my last appointment with the therapist (alone), he asked me "When are you going to give yourself permission to do what you need to do?" I took that as a big hint!
I don't think he has a replacement for me yet. I imagine it won't be long. And I feel very sorry for whomever may be next. He is very charming, that's why it's been so devastating. He could not be more different from the man that I fell in love with! I gave up a lot when I married him. I left my job, sold my house that I lived in for 9 years, and unfortunately, put a bunch of cash into the marriage. We both have lawyers now, and are working on the divorce, although it's been really slow. We are trying to work out some financial settlement due to the fact that I paid off his pre-marital credit card debt, and made numerous improvements to the house that he'll continue to live in (on his family compound I might add).
I saw that about Drew Peterson, that is just crazy!
Thanks again for your post.
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AUDad
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Cute how you discredit without proving a person wrong.
In fact, we have read your posts. You don't even know the difference between a hole in the ground and what you represent
axxhole.
You and your ilk (fellow femin azis) would rather disrupt posts from real posters that need help than give real advice.
There are no other posters on this site, period, that know more than us jovial guys from Fathers' Integrity & Rights Movement.
You can only parrot the filth of your fellow femin azis and have no real thoughts of your own, piglet. You know. We know. Anybody that reads what you have to state can see it.
Ask anyone that is not a femin azi PIG as you are.
Beware:
This is a known liar and disrupter of posts.
This is a known bully.
This is a known femin azi.
This is a known troll poster.
Therefore, whatever she states should be regarded with caution and suspect due to her repeated lies, misinformation and posts in multiple names/genders along with just being an "icky" type subhuman.
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shortmarriage
Pooh-Bah
Reged: 12/07/08
Posts: 1773
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Just so you know, AUDad, I saw warnings on this site about you before the post from "nolonger"
"Fathers' Integrity & Rights Movement" huh? Blah Blah Blah
I think my STBX should join you - he's a narcissist who abuses his daughter. He'd fit right in with you and your "movement!"
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AUDad
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Posts: 46
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Just another:
TP (Troll Poster)
Cute how you discredit without proving a person wrong.
In fact, we have read your posts. You don't even know the difference between a hole in the ground and what you represent
axxhole.
You and your ilk (fellow femin azis) would rather disrupt posts from real posters that need help than give real advice.
There are no other posters on this site, period, that know more than us jovial guys from Fathers' Integrity & Rights Movement.
You can only parrot the filth of your fellow femin azis and have no real thoughts of your own, piglet. You know. We know. Anybody that reads what you have to state can see it.
Ask anyone that is not a femin azi PIG as you are.
Beware:
This is a known liar and disrupter of posts.
This is a known bully.
This is a known femin azi.
This is a known troll poster.
Therefore, whatever she states should be regarded with caution and suspect due to her repeated lies, misinformation and posts in multiple names/genders along with just being an "icky" type subhuman.
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