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txaggie_98
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Air Force Adultery

#492398 - 01/08/09 08:29 AM

This gets really complicated but here we go. My husband of 5 1/2 years has been out of state for some military training for the last year. He ended up having two affairs that I recently found out about. One with a navy wife and the other with an air force officer from his same base. Both the navy husband and I have reported this. My husband says he is now under investigation but things aren't moving very fast. He said he may be denied promotion temporarily or permanently but that is all he thinks he will get. I have written confessions via email from both of these women admitting their affairs. So we are certainly headed for a divorce. I have lived in another state during all of this - planning for a future with my husband that will now never happen. Anyways, so what can I get out of this? We don't have kids. I moved out of state with him for a year to be with him for part of his training before living here in Texas alone while he finished the last year. Can I get spousal support, any of his future earnings or retirement? Our home address is Texas and it is a 50/50 state. But I think that is mainly for things acquired during our marriage. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks!

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Redlegg
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Re: Air Force Adultery

[Re: txaggie_98]
#492529 - 01/08/09 12:25 PM

His retirement is divisible as property. Only a judge can determine if you are entitled to spousal support or any of his future earnings. When you file, tell your attorney what you want.

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Miranda
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#492666 - 01/08/09 04:52 PM

He can get anything of yours too. If you want his future earnings be prepared to share yours...it's a 50/50 state after all.

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gail76
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#501626 - 02/08/09 04:14 PM

Let me just tell you.. I went thru the exact same thing..except we had a son.. He was deloyed to IRAQ.. went back voluntarily to be with her..she was a contract employee and he was on active duty. NOW..we are divorced.. he married her and they are back over there again now married. BE ready to just get 1/2 of everything.. they split everything 50/50 no matter how big of a jerk he is .. be lucky you dont have kids; )

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