Redlegg
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I don't think you will have a problem proving you are mentally ill, you should go with that.
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mrdivorce
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I told my wife last night that she will not get her SS. She said, in addition to not being educated etc. she will call her friend who is a lawyer in CA who documented a rape incident. This is her defends, when she was working as a stripper, she almost got rape at the parking lot on her way home from the club. She called me in her cel that she needed my help but I scream at her because she disturbed my sleep and I have a final exam the next day. It was like around 3:00 A.M. so she hangs up on me and called the police and a lawyer friend and the incident has been documented. She said the lawyer friend is willing to testify against me. In other incident she said, at one point she did not go to work for 10 days because she got a very bad flu and I never offered her even a cup of soup or checked on her how she was doing. I mean this lady needs some attention why should I do that when I have a lot to study for my degree. Do you think her claim is relevant in this case? Please need your feedback. I really don't want to pay SS because she stopped cooking for me now. All she does is rescuing all these homeless cats and get them fix so they won't breed instead of getting a real life. I want to see her bringing $$$ at home like she did when she was a stripper. That's all I'm asking her.
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Redlegg
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stick with the mental illness, and don't even worry about her. You need to go with something you can prove, and that is the one.
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johnson27
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LMAO!
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mrdivorce
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Thank you for the feedback. I will take my chances on my health issue because people who are murderer and who are incapable to stand a trial because of mental illness, they win, no jail time. In my case there is no SS payment.
However, me and wife was discussing about me not pursuing the divorce. I told her that I will pay the mortgage and the house bills and her car insurance except she needs to pay her own groceries and personal expenses and gas for her car.
Her respond is, if I don't give her allowances for $500 a month, she will go back to her old job as a stripper in the club where my co-workers go to. To me this is to humiliate me. My question is can I file a restraining order for being indecent wife?
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mrdivorce
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I just told my wife on the phone that I will agree to give her allowance of $500/month. She said ok but with two conditions, she will not cook for me and no more sex. She will only clean the house and the yard and sleeps with her cats in the other bedroom. And I told her with the $500/month I must have sex and everything she usually do in the house. What do you think.
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Redlegg
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I am not sure, you want the mental illness defense, how would it be if you said you are incapable of paying spousal support because of mental illness, but you are competent enough to say her trying to work and get money by stripping makes her indecent. I think you should encourage her to work and stick with the mental illness. It just seems at this point, you will be able to prove the illness beyond any doubt. Stop messing with her, and focus on your illness, you should probably try to get some help too, so it is documented.
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mrdivorce
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She did encourage me to get some help which I did and it's been 4 months now that I have been taking a medication to calm my nerve down. If I was not on medication I won't be able to join this forum because I fell miserable all the time. My wife think I have bipolar disease. However, I don't need to encourage her to get a job, she finds jobs but the jobs she found is not good enough. She takes a little higher than minimum wages that is why I asked her to quit so she can focused on finding a better job that pays well that is equal or at least of what I'm making now. I just want fair share that's all and I hope those who reads this, will understand my side. She made a choice to voluntarily helped me out at the beginning and I choose to have equal rights.
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spinnerdegrassi
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Why doesn't she keep on stripping. I'm sure there's a niche market for almost 50 yr old strippers on the circuit
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d2njti
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I'm throwing a birthday party for my Dad's 80th. Can I get her number?
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