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sweetestlove
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Can he get away with debt he owned me?
      #527019 - 04/28/09 10:59 PM

He used my credit card with maxium of 5,800 availiable and already maxed out. He knows that the inerest rate was 27% and yet he was counting the money he paid the balance he owned me which is not include interest rate charges? Now he decide to stop when I am no longer relationship with him. What I can do to recover this debt and on top of that he also use my other credit cards as well that total at least 8,000. Please advice...I am on my own to pay those bills

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Re: Can he get away with debt he owned me? [Re: sweetestlove]
      #527080 - 04/29/09 06:46 AM

You answered your own question. You are on your own to pay those bills. They are in your name and YOU alone are the only person the creditors will come after. There is no getting out of it unless you file for bankruptcy. If you try to get out of repayment, and the charges were racked up over a length of time, you will be asked why you didn't put a stop to his use of the card. Pointing to unreported charges of abuse, or saying "he made me let him use the card" will get you absolutely nowhere.

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Re: Can he get away with debt he owned me? [Re: javajunkiee]
      #527246 - 04/29/09 12:50 PM

We agreed to pay half and half. She has her own debt from other side. We agreed verbally that I will pay 300.00 to ward to it. And I have been paying so far close to 4,000 dollars. I have kept my records what I have been paying her. but on her side she didnt pay her own and used money to move to South Carolina. her bad.. She is all balh blah blah balh ..Ask her how could she afford to move from Iowa to SC on her SSDI income?? surprise me..

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sweetestlove
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Re: Can he get away with debt he owned me? [Re: century7]
      #527257 - 04/29/09 01:04 PM

Wrong

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century7
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Re: Can he get away with debt he owned me? [Re: sweetestlove]
      #527292 - 04/29/09 01:53 PM

Now cool it and mediating.. I know you in emotional wreck for some time now. Please get some help.

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sweetestlove
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Re: Can he get away with debt he owned me? [Re: century7]
      #527310 - 04/29/09 02:31 PM

Lol, I am not in emotional ....you are thinking that way

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Re: Can he get away with debt he owned me? [Re: sweetestlove]
      #527312 - 04/29/09 02:35 PM

Wow --does anyone here have English as a first language?

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Re: Can he get away with debt he owned me? [Re: Maury]
      #527313 - 04/29/09 02:37 PM

I would settle for coherent sentences.

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Re: Can he get away with debt he owned me? [Re: javajunkiee]
      #527863 - 04/30/09 06:16 PM

Your only real options are:
1) pay the debt yourself
2) file bankruptcy
3) sue him for the bills but you will need to prove an agreement on his part to pay his charges


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sweetestlove
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Re: Can he get away with debt he owned me? [Re: AmberDawn]
      #527872 - 04/30/09 06:31 PM

Yes! I save those reciepts...he got his own hearing aids that cost 4,500! Install rebuilt tranmission another 1,170.00 in his own jeep! Then credit card maxed out where it used be zero available balance, had 27% on it. It is not gift.

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