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Aside from his CS arrears, (and posting the pics), what has be done wrong that an OP is needed? Does he beat them? Threaten them of bodily harm? If not, and OP will also work against her.

The courts want to see both parent's co-parenting, not using a child as a weapon for whatever.

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He needs to seriously get a life

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Wow. You know these people?

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You are a fricken lunatic.

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am i lunatic cause i will not stop fighting to see them.

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This board is all about ensuring that both parents have access to their children.

But it is hard to watch someone like yourself, self-destruct.
Posting pics on your kids on the internet, harassing your stbx, falling further into arrears on your child support, wallowing in denial of the inappropriateness of your actions.

These are not actions on a sane person. As far as your posts show, you have done nothing positive to move forward toward resolving the situation.

Have you thought that you might be suffering from depression and/or have other psychological problems?

Your community has services. You need to find out what is causing you to continue to make such poor choices before any judge is going to support your pleas.

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This board is all about ensuring that both parents have access to their children.

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Well thanks for clearing that up.I mean it seems like u are the only person here.Who can agree that both child need access to their children

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Posting pics on your kids on the internet, harassing your stbx, falling further into arrears on your child support, wallowing in denial of the inappropriateness of your actions.

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Now why do people on here still are not looking at the point of the pic.Encase some of the people hear seem to forgot.I will say it again.I posted the pic to show u all how my son was [censored] SLAP,And how my wife is chasing her own sister with OUR son in the background.Cause she was taking a picture of her nephew.And how it so simple to see that i was asking what advice can u all suggest to get my child away from this monster.

But u all do not and will not ever see it that way.All u all keep seeing is a pic of child on the net.I mean it must be hard to look at your self in the mirror every morning.I bet u all even said I'm a great parent.Then if that is the case how know u all will tell what i need to do to get my son and my little angel out of harms way from their crazy ass mother

Now on too the comment on the harrassing of the stbx.Were in the hell do any of u all have the right to claim i am doing that.I mean i can see if i was calling her house and saying stuff like [censored] HOW COME MY KIDS are not allow to speak to me and if i see u.I'm going to beat ur ass.But i have never said that at all.Hell if u wanna someone being harass.Take a look at what she sends me on myspace after messaging her so i can call and speak to the kids since their birthdays was coming up....


Im tired of youre excuses and delusions of you was this great Daddy for my kids. And i say my kids becouse you never wanted or took responbility for anything in their lives. You expected me to work, cook, clean , teach them things that you could also have donee but refused to becouse as you say its a woman's job and all along you sat and played video games. You wonder why thats all Jonathan is interested in its youre fault .Playing WOW all the time and Xbox.He got it from you . And as for the relationship between me and Matt that doesnt concearn you he still wants to be a part of their lives and im not going to stop him.He actually cares how there doin he calls to talk to him regualy.Theres no reason for you to bother him texting cause as you said he dont live here so leave him alone. So if you want to help them you need to give them some space they havent seen you in over two years what makes you think they want to .All jonathan wants from you in his playstation that you got them for christmas thats all he wants and Natalie which you have yet to spell her name right doesnt want to talk to you at alll how sad is that and its all youre fault.They want to go see Matt if that makes you feel any better.They miss him and they went and visted him.They love him.It doesnt matter if me and matt dont work out he will still be a part of their lives.So just leave us alone we dont want you.

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From: Chris
To: " ELIZABETH"
Date: Jun 12, 2009 4:30 AM
Subject: hey


U know i cannot believe what a person u have become and all.I mean i can understand any hate u have against me.I have admitted to you i was a bad husband.But for u to say

"So you khno9w they meaning Jonathan and Natakie do not wish to speak to you. It is not me keeping you from them they made that choice on there own."

I cannot believe u would stoop to the point were u would use ur own kids against me,Just so u can try to get even with me.And if u honestly think i belive my OUR kids would choose not too talk me cause they choose too.Then u have serious [censored] them up.Cause if the kids fear me then how come the they miss me and was said when they could not come up to see and all.And they did not want to come back to u when i had them,They would cry and say i wanna stay with daddy.

You know liz the one that i worry about the most out of our 2 kids.It is jonathan,He is going to grow up and have anger issue over this and there will be no one to blame but u and me.But telling u this will do no good.Cause like u said after u [censored] up my life.

ALL U SEEM CARE IS ABOUT U.

I mean with me not being there u are suppose to be a prime role model for him.I mean he had trouble in both schools since i have left,He is still having anger issue.I mean from the video of him he is more concern with a pc and all,So it would be safe to assume that all u allow him is too play games.So that way u do not have to deal with it.

And then there is are daughter.She will look up too and wanna be like u.I mean do u honestly think our daughter will see a role model in her future.I mean u cannot find work at all.U expect me to take care of u from a child support check that u would be able to get if u would drop the damn charge so i can work.But u will never do that at all.So u will try to find a man to take care of u and she will grown up too see this as a common thing and she will be just like u




Plus i remember last time u let me speak to them,They was happy to speak to me.You stop letting me speak to them cause our son said UR EX SUGAR DADDY would not let him spend the night with me.And i question u on it and u had a fit cause i said to SO are son is lying and all,And u threaten me that Matt would beat my ass and then u hung up on me and then he call back and did the same.So it funny how u can say that did not wanna speak so shortly after i last talk to them


And ur quote about Kay


"Dont you have a GF to worry about better keep her happy or she may throw you out. "

She and i are doing great and all.She will not kick me out and all.She and i do not worried about u and u comments towards her kid.I mean i can say this she does put her kids first and she has ex that does not want 2 do anything for her kid and she still lets the man see his kid.When he decides to show up and all.So i cannot see were u have the idea to even cross that line.And for u a GROWN ASS Woman 2 bring up a 13 yr old kid in a message.Show 100% proof that u will use a child to gain whatever control u might want

And for u too quote this

"They call Matt daddy they love him and trust him.Matt has never given them a reason to doubt his love for them.Hes never hurt them in any way or given them a reason to fear him"

Then how come he kick u too the curb in Alabama.I mean and he said this too me when i text him asking if u and the kids was OK,Cause i was worried about u and the kids

Here is the text

I got a girl now that works and ant got anykids
Tab. &.matt

Wow liz that sure does sound like such a great father figure for ours kids.I mean if that is what u call a person who cares about kids,Wow no wonder why u and i never work.

You know when u say [censored] like this

"We have a new family with Matt and im not going to let you ruin there lives for the greater good of youre own PRIDE becouse youre biological kids love another man as there dad more than you."

U are not hurting me.U are hurting them in the long road,Cause they will see what it like to know that I've never giving up on them and still fight to see them.I mean u could and i could be divorce and go on about are merry life's and all,And be there for are kids.But no i was more then willing to comprise and even screw my self by letting u have sole custody of the kids and i would have been happy with them every weekend and one day a week.

But no u did not want that.

I mean what is it going to take for u to GROW up and let me speak to OUR Kids.Because of ur recent choices i guess i have to figure out a way to come back to Ga,and deal with it and that way u can make it a draw out battle and the kids will suffer more and more and more.But since u care so much for them.Have u really even thought of that

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falling further into arrears on your child support, wallowing in denial of the inappropriateness of your actions.

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Now to answer this bullshit on why CS is so far behind,And the so called wallowing in denial of the inappropriateness of your actions.

well let see CS arrears in behind to the FACT that

" The number of unemployed persons (14.7 million) and the unemployment
rate (9.5 percent) were little changed in June. Since the start of the
recession in December 2007, the number of unemployed persons has increas-
ed by 7.2 million, and the unemployment rate has risen by 4.6 percentage
points. (See table A-1.)".

So that might have a reason for me being behind in arrears.Oh but i bet someone in this forum.Will have something to say that it is a excuse and that is why wallowing in denial.But whatever the case may be and all.

Plus i mean i cannot stand for a person/PARENT to bring up CS are arrears in a talk.When i was asking how to get my child to the safe warming arms of their father.Cause out of all the people i have ever spoken too about CS.They use CS support as some sort of leverage to deny access to the children.I mean does any of us as parents.Happen to see a sign are PRICE TAG on them saying'"IF DADDY/MOMMA.IF U WANNA SEE ME.I NEED U 2 PAY DADDY/MOMMA NEEDS TO PAY THEIR CHILD Support".I mean no i never seen one on any kids at all.I mean but then again u have never look at that at all.Have u my good fellow


Now to address how i am wallowing in denial of the inappropriateness of your actions.

I not wallowing in [censored] about all of this.I am upset at the injustice that a MOTHER/WOMAN.Can assume that it's OK to keep OUR very own children from their father.I mean cause I'm upset and pissed off and will not stop to have the right to see my kids.If that make's me wallowing in denial of the inappropriateness of your actions.

Then i am fine with the stereotype label u wanna call it.

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Have you thought that you might be suffering from depression and/or have other psychological problems?

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HMMMMMM how to answer this question.Well i guess let me post a study on how not seeing your kids can affect a human person

Relationships with minor children have been shown to have both positive and negative effects on the psychological well-being of divorced persons (Hughes, 1989). These effects are moderated by whether minor children are present in the household. Divorced fathers with absent children often feel guilt, frustration, anxiety, a sense of longing, sadness, and emptiness due to loss of an ongoing relationship with their children (Gerson, 1993; Hughes, 1989; Kruk, 1992). Many non-resident fathers often express that they feel a loss of control over their children�s lives (Feldman, 1990) and in the divorce process (Arendell, 1995; Umberson & Williams, 1993). This loss of control may be manifestated in the withdrawal of fathers from their children�s lives, a negative assessment of relationships with children, psychological distress (Mirowsky & Ross, 1989), and/or a failure to support children economically. On the other hand, fathers with absent children may be relieved of daily caregiving tasks as well as have greater opportunities to develop new relationships (Hughes, 1989).


So if u read above.It quite normal for father to have bouts of depression and many other problems.But then again when was the last time u had to see your son thru a photo and her that your son is being made to call me Chris.Instead of daddy

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Your community has services. You need to find out what is causing you to continue to make such poor choices before any judge is going to support your pleas.

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To me the jury is out on that one.I mean i have no clue wear you came up with that.If you do not some much care to explain,I would like to know were u see me as a person.Who is choosing to make such poor choices.And how do u think that cause of my persistent nature to speak 2 my kids is not going to have a judge is not going to support my pleas

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