Dude sorry to hear that. It sounds like she is taking advice from her family and that could be a mistake on her part. but what I've learned is just this, hold your head up high, it will bother you and don’t show it, I think you know what to do, don’t give in to the emotions and don’t sign the divorce papers, drag your feet on all issues, be just as arrogant as her aunt, tear up the paper and act as if it did not happen. what they want to do is hurt you, push your buttons, I look at it like this, life is a movie and I am the director and if that is not what you want in your movie you don’t have to have it in. you control the movie not the aunt, the aunt sounds like she is in some sort of control by telling your wife what to do. Don’t give them the respect they need or want they are nothing .the laws are man made and really you don’t have to follow them. Just act like you’re following them. Some may disagree with this but I don’t care what others think. And neither should you. Good luck
-------------------- just sorta rambling, dont take my word for it I'm mostly wrong.
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