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Re: I have found that younger women... [Re: d2njti]
      #578670 - 09/16/09 08:36 PM

Women worship my "knob"!

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Re: I have found that younger women... [Re: Miranda]
      #578673 - 09/16/09 08:54 PM

[quote][quote]If I ever split from my wife, there's no way I'd be dating another woman my age. Why would I want to go through dating women with kids again and having to have that aspect be a factor once more? I've already helped raise a stepchild, I don't need to have that experience again. But how many divorced women in their late 30's don't have kids? It's a minority. How many women in their 20's to early 30's don't have kids? Significantly more. [/quote]


That is a dumb thought process. You date a 20 year old who is going to want kids in a few years. That makes no sense. What you should do is date someone with grown children, so the entire children thing is not a factor. [/quote]

It does make sense. Why would I want to date someone with grown children? That would put them at the very least in their late 30's assuming they had them in their early 20's and more likely in their mid 40's. Why not date someone in their 20's with no kids. If they want kids going forward, you drop them and find the next one. Again, it's not like you're seeking to get married again, you're dating to enjoy yourself. Even someone with adult kids has that baggage associated to their life and you have to work around it (unless the adult kids are completely out of their lives, which is rare)

But again more importantly, why would I want to date a woman 5-10 years older than me who is just seeing her kids move into adulthood when I could date one 5-10 years younger who has no kids whatsover?


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Re: I have found that younger women... [Re: spinnerdegrassi]
      #578684 - 09/16/09 10:01 PM

Maybe I'm an abnormal female, but in my 20's I was looking for husband material. There was no way I would date someone in their 40's who didn't want kids and LTR/marriage. When I escape this marriage, I will NOT be looking to get married again.

But, yeah, the boobs are saggy..........


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Re: I have found that younger women... [Re: finz]
      #578685 - 09/16/09 10:06 PM

The marriage rate is going down. Look at it 30 years ago compared to now. The trend isn't reversing.

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Re: I have found that younger women... [Re: spinnerdegrassi]
      #578698 - 09/17/09 02:21 AM

You are very unrealistic.

How old is your wife? Older, I think...but that's just my guess.

You are a big talker, but I think at home, she has you purring like a.....well, you know.......


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And THAT is the problem... [Re: finz]
      #578707 - 09/17/09 05:18 AM

"Maybe I'm an abnormal female, but in my 20's I was looking for husband material."

And right NOW, spinner is talking about looking for DATING material, having FUN material, etc. But somehow YOUR standards are acceptable, and his have him labeled a creep.

Why is that? Oh yeah, cause women make the rules...or should I say USED to make the rules.

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Re: And THAT is the problem... [Re: gr8Dad]
      #579051 - 09/18/09 12:48 AM

I didn't label him a creep

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Re: And THAT is the problem... [Re: finz]
      #579107 - 09/18/09 07:33 AM

No one forces anyone to have kids, get married, etc.

This whole "cougar" thing with women is a media invention.

I know my ex's #1 worry was she was in her early 40's and had kids. She latched on to the first person who wasn't bothered by it.


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ROFLMAO [Re: Yes_Dad]
      #580256 - 09/21/09 05:38 PM

You guys are all freaking crazy and biting off your nose to spite your face.

Spinner, you're so adamant about gettin bj's from a young bimbo and repeatedly state how you'd ditch your wife and stick her with alimony at the first chance you'd get.

Newsflash - a mature woman with sexual experience is likely less inhibited and more skilled at blowing your 'mind' than some stupid chippy who's experience has been limited to drunk frat boys and mama's boys who haven't mastered the ability to not lose it right out of the starting gate.

A mature woman also can afford that alimony you're so eager to spend, while bimbo is still working retail, hitting the clubs, and planning your 200 guest, 30k fairytale wedding.

A mature woman has been there, done that, survived it and isn't of the mind to play games. Just because she's also of the mind to not put up with a man's saggy ass, hairy back, laziness or freeloading friends, nor has the stomach for his reliving his glory days, doesn't mean she's wrong.

You men with your fixation on the young bimbos? Go for it. The rest of us women will sit back with our nice bank accts, nice homes, freedom, and vibrators and have everything we need. After all, vibrators don't have performance anxiety, get the job done without draining the bank acct, and don't spread disease. You can't say the same about your bimbos.

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Re: ROFLMAO [Re: javajunkiee]
      #580263 - 09/21/09 05:53 PM

"vibrators don't have performance anxiety, get the job done without draining the bank acct, and don't spread disease."

They also don't pay alimony.

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