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losingfaith
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well I guess thats it
      #573679 - 09/03/09 04:46 PM

Man I don't even know how to say this
I feel like utter crap
I know many of you don't know my story
I'm not going to get into it because it's to long
so for the ones that don't...
to make a long story short I was trying to salvage my marriage
it didn't work
I feel like I'm sinking into my self right now
we had to stop the counseling because my mother had a stoke and I had to play some of her bills and simply could not afford it any more
the fighting between us has become worse
she showed up at my work today with her aunt
handed me the keys to the truck and a piece of paper
when I asked what was going on she said nothing and her aunt told her to just walk away
I asked again pleading with her to tell me what was going on
her aunt turned to me and said
open the paper
so I did and all that was written on it was a womans name and number and under that it said ***'s lawyer

I started to cry asking over and over why
could she at least give me an explanation
her aunt kept telling her get in the car and I think she started to cry
I said I love you why are you going to just walk away with out giving me an explanation
her aunt told me she doesn't love you get over it
well I guess that's it

:.(


I have dated a good bit in my life but I have only ever felt like this about a few people
2 to be exact and one is still questionable
I love this woman and I was more then likely 85 to 90% of the problem

and I guess she has made up her mind

I just wish there was some way I could convince her otherwise but I don't think that will work this time

I am so lost with out her
god I would give anything to have her here and to here her say she loves me


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Standing above the crowd he had a voice that was strong and loud

Edited by losingfaith (09/03/09 10:43 PM)


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Re: well I guess thats it [Re: losingfaith]
      #574154 - 09/04/09 01:39 PM

Dude sorry to hear that. It sounds like she is taking advice from her family and that could be a mistake on her part. but what I've learned is just this, hold your head up high, it will bother you and don’t show it, I think you know what to do, don’t give in to the emotions and don’t sign the divorce papers, drag your feet on all issues, be just as arrogant as her aunt, tear up the paper and act as if it did not happen. what they want to do is hurt you, push your buttons, I look at it like this, life is a movie and I am the director and if that is not what you want in your movie you don’t have to have it in. you control the movie not the aunt, the aunt sounds like she is in some sort of control by telling your wife what to do. Don’t give them the respect they need or want they are nothing .the laws are man made and really you don’t have to follow them. Just act like you’re following them. Some may disagree with this but I don’t care what others think. And neither should you.
Good luck

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just sorta rambling, dont take my word for it I'm mostly wrong.


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