cyber_green1
journeyman
Reged: 06/07/09
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just saw California wants to make divorce illegal? I think it should be. it should be like a tidal wave rolling across America and the world. take a vow and it should mean something.
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spinnerdegrassi
Carpal \'Tunnel
Reged: 08/20/06
Posts: 7947
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Yeah but what if your skanky wife cheats on you. You gotta dump that ass fast.
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cyber_green1
journeyman
Reged: 06/07/09
Posts: 83
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well i would think that either two things either make sure who you marry or cheat back .since it would only be fair, oh also hit the other in the wallet that makes a good equilizer, I dont know to tell you the truth it just seems to me that when you take a vow it does mean something.
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spinnerdegrassi
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Eh, I'd just dump her ass, get alimony and drain all the bank accounts. Vows are just words, and if someone breaks the vow (ie cheating) the marriage is null and void. I don't need to keep up the contract when someone else breaks it.
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icwal
enthusiast
Reged: 11/19/07
Posts: 334
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I don't think that will happen but I would not be surprised that in the future cheating on your spouse will be taken into consideration on how the property and assets are split. I really think people are sick and tired of spouses cheating and walking away with at least half of everything. The days of having your cake and eating it too are coming to an end. If someone is not happy in their marriage they can file for divorce and move on. I say if you cheat you get Nothing!!
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cyber_green1
journeyman
Reged: 06/07/09
Posts: 83
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what if a spouse is accused of cheating and they didnot , i do think or hope the days of having your cake and eating too are coming to an end Logans Run I love the concept of that movie, but to i hope we all revert back to the cave man days also no law and court system to screw us up with, bonk a woman on the head that your vow and if ya break it you hit her hard enough to split the skull she gets half and you get half. just some fun thoughts late on a sleepless night
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icwal
enthusiast
Reged: 11/19/07
Posts: 334
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Just a heads up.. I am a woman - both men and women cheat. As afar as accusing someone of cheating - it should be like it is now. You must have proof. It really is not that hard to prove if someone is cheating. I think it just has to do with the fact if someone really wants to find out the truth.
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shortmarriage
Pooh-Bah
Reged: 12/07/08
Posts: 1773
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You should seek some professional help...quickly...please. You are dangerous, and I mean this seriously. I've read your posts. Please get some help.
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cyber_green1
journeyman
Reged: 06/07/09
Posts: 83
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Pelosi said, choking up and with tears forming in her eyes. “This kind of rhetoric is just, is really frightening and it created a climate in which we, violence took place and … I wish that we would all, again, curb our enthusiasm
what a lying bi__h!
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javajunkiee
Carpal \'Tunnel
Reged: 06/01/08
Posts: 3154
Loc: SC
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I don't think she should make divorce illegal. Thats assinine. If you end up with a cheating spouse, an abusive spouse, or just an outright freak, you should be able to end the marriage.
Now what I would like to see is making marriage HARDER to get into. Institute a 2 yr waiting period. Make sure that the relationship isn't a fleeting attraction by dragging out the engagement for two years.
Require couples counseling. Require classes on how to manage finances, how to reconcile any religious differences, and above all require parenting classes! Make sure you're on the same page with your prospective spouse on these things BEFORE you take your vows.
If getting into marriage was harder in the first place, the idiots that are in love with being in love would bail from the lack of instant gratification before they ever made it to the altar. I think that would sink divorce rate.
Making divorce illegal is stupid, and doesn't address the biggest problem people seem to have with divorce in the first place: the screwed up laws that govern the process.
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