CrushedNSide
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Reged: 09/20/09
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Some months ago I found out my wife cheated on me. A best friend of hers told me she has been cheating on me for months even after I got back from overseas. My wife told me she cheated once. Well around the sametime she got pregnant she told me it was mine and the date the doctor said she became pregnant was around the time I was using condoms still. I want to forgive her and live on with her because I love her but could I forgive if the child is not mine. I'm going to have a dna test done when the child is born.
1. I dont know if I could live with the fact that she cheated on me got pregnant and tried to hide it and cover it up if she would just come out and say that the kid might not be mine I could gradually deal with it and try to forgive over time but if I find out after the baby is born I dont think I can. My love is still strong for my wife even after what she did.
2. How do I forgive?
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Devon
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spinnerdegrassi
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Reged: 08/20/06
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You don't. She's proven to be a cheater and a liar and you sure as hell don't want to be stuck paying for a child she had by banging someone else. Chances are she'll do it again, if given the opportunity.
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CrushedNSide
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Reged: 09/20/09
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see the thing is I love her to death and I would like to give her the chance she is trying to make the change it is just so slow. She knows it will take forever to get my trust back but she has not left my side after I moved back into the house.
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Devon
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cyber_green1
journeyman
Reged: 06/07/09
Posts: 76
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love is just an emotion that fades with time ,remember that schoolgirl you had a crush on in 2nd grade that was love and it fadded. be a man and step up -this kid needs a father and you might just find out that you need a kid. what do you have to lose. and you have everything to gain.
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just sorta rambling, dont take my word for it I'm mostly wrong.
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christine1
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Reged: 04/21/08
Posts: 428
Loc: Ma
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Take it from someone who knows "once a cheat always a cheat". She will manipulate you to believe she is changing but in a week, month, year she will break your heart again.
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