Stonedog
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Ok,
I am in Tennessee . My wife has a man that stays several days aweek at her home. We are not legally seperated and I am filing for divorce asap.
My daughter has said on numerous occasions about seeing mommy and Jeff laying in bed together .
What are my chances of getting a No overnight Guest clause put in a parenting plan untill we are legally divorced ?
I assume my lawyer will have to file the appropriate paper work est.... How long will it take to get this enforced once I ask him to do what needs to be done.
SD
Edited by Stonedog (11/05/09 05:53 PM)
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rocketgirl
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You can ask for anything you want.. but remember it goes both ways. What you are asking of her will be something you have to abide by also.
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Lisa
Diplomacy - the art of telling someone to go to hell, and them looking forward to the trip.
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AloneInTheDark
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The question should be, do you want your daughter to think its okay to be in bed and have sex with someone they are not married with. That does go for you too.
I see absolutely nothing wrong with that stipulation personaly and if I get to the point where I am ready to write my own wife off as a piece of trash not worth wasting any tme and money on to to stay married with, I will want to have sex myself again someday. I love the non sleeping bed activities personally, lol. But I wont need to do it in the house with someone I am not married with and give the wrong message to impressionable kids who will have a whole lot of hormones and peer pressures leading them the wrong way anyway.
Of course most people who see the kids as a way of helping pay for their single life after they divorce their spouse dont care about the message they are sending their kids anyway. They are there to get their husband to help pay their own apartment, ect.
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AloneInTheDark but life goes even without being a Dad any more.
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DeeCan
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I am in Tennessee also. Although the morality clause is actually off the books now in Tennessee, many judges will still issue it.
Once it's officially filed, it is in full force and effect. Although, if she breaks it, there is little you can do except to file a contempt of Court.
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Redlegg
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Of course most people who see the kids as a way of helping pay for their single life after they divorce their spouse dont care about the message they are sending their kids anyway. They are there to get their husband to help pay their own apartment, ect.
Unless of course, they are there to get their wife to help pay for their own apartment, etc. Evil women, it is a plot I tell you, just a plot............
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Stonedog
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Of course most people who see the kids as a way of helping pay for their single life after they divorce their spouse dont care about the message they are sending their kids anyway. They are there to get their husband to help pay their own apartment, ect.
Dead on post !!!!
Thanks to all for your help and advice !
Terry
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