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merlot36
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Lunch Money
      #599308 - 11/13/09 04:13 PM

I have a question.

My x husband and I share custody of my kids he has them 2 days on my weekend and 5 days on his weekend. My question is this...My children school requires you to order lunches a week in advance.. The slip usually comes to my home on the first of the month.

I have been paying for the kids lunches during my parenting time and his..Is he not suppose to provide food and shelter for them while they are in his care? or do I have too?

Should i asked to be reimbursed for all the lunches I paid that he was to cover.


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Re: Lunch Money [Re: merlot36]
      #599314 - 11/13/09 04:26 PM

Has child support been changed to reflect the new parenting plan ?

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merlot36
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Re: Lunch Money [Re: googledad]
      #599335 - 11/13/09 04:59 PM

No not yet

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Re: Lunch Money [Re: merlot36]
      #599340 - 11/13/09 05:16 PM

So do you get more or less CS then you should if it reflected the real parenting time?

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Re: Lunch Money [Re: merlot36]
      #599341 - 11/13/09 05:26 PM

You pay till CS is changed .

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Re: Lunch Money [Re: googledad]
      #599356 - 11/13/09 06:47 PM

"Should i asked to be reimbursed for all the lunches I paid that he was to cover."
Out of curiosity, how much money are we talking about per month?


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Re: Lunch Money [Re: merlot36]
      #599359 - 11/13/09 07:02 PM

My thought would be if you are getting CS then you should pay it. If there is no CS and expenses are split completely between homes then it should be split. If CS is the process of being changed now that he has 50/50 then you should continue to pay but let him know when the change is made he will need to pay one month and you will pay the next.

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Re: Lunch Money [Re: merlot36]
      #599492 - 11/14/09 08:27 AM

Oh good gravy, pay the kids lunch money without complaint for crying out loud.

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Re: Lunch Money [Re: googledad]
      #599493 - 11/14/09 08:28 AM

What *new* parenting plan?

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Re: Lunch Money [Re: Avaya]
      #599513 - 11/14/09 10:20 AM

What *new* parenting plan?

>>>>>> The father was recently awarded 50/50 against her objections , CS hasn't been changed to reflect the new parentng plan .

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