idiot2006
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Well let me tell nearly all folks out here, as if you all didn't already know, "Life is not always greener on the other side."
I had what most people search their entire life for, and with a blink of an eye threw it all away. The woman I was married to was the most honest, beautiful (inside and out), and caring (person and mother) I have evr met. We did click in most every way, and the ones we didn't click on she was always willing to compromise with me! Again, i was the idiot in 2006, hence the name, and if I could ever find that magic wand I would turn back the times!
So, for all you woman who have put up with crap like mine, I have to truly say I am sorry, and this would especially go to the one I really hurt that didn't deserve it at all!!!!
I know she has moved on, and can only hope the lucky man who has probably found her, treats her like I should have. She gave me everything, and I in-turn gave nothing in return!
So, for those of you who find yourself in my position can just add idiot, like I did, to the year you thought was going to be better.
I always told her to, "Remember me this way," but I really don't think I would ever deserve to be remembered by her at all! SORRY
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myheart
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Reged: 05/21/09
Posts: 213
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I am glad you admit it, but it is already too late, I guess, right..
I was married to somebody like you, not sure what did you do to her. Did everything for him to see a smile on his face. Thought we were just ideal couple, we talked about other couples who are in sync or not. Yep but he through everything out the door in a blink.
I am glad he did somehow, becuase I didn't have guts to end it and would have put up with him forever.....
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Sherron
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Reged: 11/25/06
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"becuase I didn't have guts to end it and would have put up with him forever.....
Why, if you were "just ideal couple"?
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myheart
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Reged: 05/21/09
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We thought we were ideal couple when we just got married, picture changed fairly quickly. But I kept that fantacy in my dream, if things were so good once, can be good again, if we try to work at it. This is why if he would not have ended it, I would have kept trying, and trying.
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idiot2006
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Doesn't matter what I did, I shouldn't have never put myself in the position I did to begin with....once there most men's pride takes over and we are unable to swallow that pride, take a step back, and admit we did something that was wrong. Instead we throw our chests out and think that we were right and blame someone else for our actions!
This not only hurts the ones were in love with, but everyone around us! If I could only go back and change things, but I can't, and like I said before I can only hope that whomever finds her takes care of a great lady!
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myheart
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Reged: 05/21/09
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If you realized it, why don't you go and approach her, she may be waiting to hear that from you. She may seem to move on, but may be because she thought it is over from your side and she is jsut trying to live her life the best she can.
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losingfaith
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Reged: 01/26/09
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No don't do that
I am learning that if she is ready to here it she will let you know
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Standing above the crowd he had a voice that was strong and loud
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losingfaith
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Reged: 01/26/09
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I take that back if you want to tell her then do so
but if she doesn't want to here it or will not accept it then there is nothing you can do
the bottom line is you can't make anyone accept anything they are not ready to hear
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Standing above the crowd he had a voice that was strong and loud
Edited by losingfaith (11/18/09 01:13 PM)
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idiot2006
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Yeah, I would have liked to approach her in the past, but as I said I really screwed things up! Just heard that she is involved in another relationship, and really hope the guy treats her right!
She is a very smart woman, who owns her own business, takes care of herself, her kids, grandchildren, and is involved in the church, and loved me.................man, again, I was thinking life was greener......what was I thinking? But have since pulled my head out and now try to treat people the RIGHT way! RESPECT!
Anyway, I really appreciate the opinions out there, and just hope that maybe someone has read this and has pulled their head out before it is too late!
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yregna
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Reged: 07/25/06
Posts: 1265
Loc: Oregon
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The fact that a man/woman screws around during the marriage, should not be cause for anyone to benefit financially from the marriage when they exit.
Infidelity shouldn't have anything to do with it...
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"Anything free is worth what you pay for it..."
"Climate is what we expect, weather is what we get"
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