preemiemom
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[quote]That's how it was with us. The cutoff dates were Dec 31. So if you were going to turn 6 by Dec 31 you would start Grade 1 in Sept of that year. If your turned 6 on Jan 1, you would wait till Sept of the following year. [/quote]
It depends on school district here? Some it is August 1. Some it is December 1. There is also, I gather, a 7 day "grace" period. So, for example, the little girl who was with dd for so long? Her birthday is 12/14. She misses the grace period by 7 days. The 3rd little girl in our NICU "triumvirate" (lol), HER birthday is 12/9. She misses it, with the grace period, by TWO days. So it will really suck for them b/c they'll have been 18 for quite a while when they graduate high school.
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youngatheart
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It is of no cost to the employee...whether that be a military employee or an employee at a nonprofit, a forprofit or in another area of the government.
I don't know what Army end of year statements you were looking at, but Ex's never had a monetary value on his health insurance. Same with my insurance...there's no end of year "value". There is the end of year what *I* have paid into the policy (my employer pays 75% of the premium, I pay 25%).
Regardless, the amount NOT paid towards insurance does not get included in child support computations.
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preemiemom
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[quote]can you tell me what this document on cssa looks like. so far i've seen nothing other then divorce papers, and such. but no special document the would stick out..thank you [/quote]
It is a downloadable document from the web. Google "New York Child Support Standard Act" and it should be one of the, if not THE first document to come up. It is a .pdf file and it is a document that is like a spreadsheet, it will have incomes down the left, and across the top the # of children/percentage. From $0 to whatever income. I forget the bands of amounts.
ack.. God I hate doing your job for you, but.. here is the direct link: https[censored]newyorkchildsupport.com/pdfs/CSSA_2009.pdf
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cherokee
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listen preemie he had got a promotion, prior to our divorce, then only four days later the raise came, so actually he'd already gotten the promotion, that's why his lawyer said he's only making $30K per year. i'm not lying this is what happened. now as far as that document your talking about( cssa) would i have had to receive that from the courts or what. i know like you said that its on line because, i still can't find it in my paper, although i will keep looking, as you have given me hope to this mess i'm in. thank you
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gr8Dad
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...he told you, AT the time, what he made. Now, you DO know that just because you GOT a promotion, in the military, doesn't mean you GET the money, right? Yiu get a promotion and a LINE NUMBER, and when the line number comes up, you put on the rank and get the money.
Damn, you are just DENSE.
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Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...
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Sherron
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"Damn, you are just DENSE. "
On the bright side, she has managed to change my opinion about counting per diem for cs purposes.
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cherokee
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well your wrong and the lawyer proved it. the money was already in place, and i'm not dense. people just can't talk nice to people anymore.what a shame..
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preemiemom
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[quote]...he told you, AT the time, what he made. Now, you DO know that just because you GOT a promotion, in the military, doesn't mean you GET the money, right? Yiu get a promotion and a LINE NUMBER, and when the line number comes up, you put on the rank and get the money.
Damn, you are just DENSE. [/quote]
To the best of my knowledge it is based on PRIOR YEARS W-2s. The current stubs only back that up. If they didn't exist, they would go based on prior year. Since, at the time of the CS request, he did NOT make that money? It's not COUNTED b/c it wasn't EARNED yet.
NOW, if you want to say there has been a change in CIRCUMSTANCE, where he now has a higher paying job? Then THAT might be a valid ground on which to base your case. Since the increase is 30%+ of what he WAS making.
If you're going to make a case, make it on FACT, not this made up bullshyt of per diems and another $55K a year. I am a custodial parent female, who like Gr8 and Google, got shyt for support at time of divorce. Like Google, my ex was in Self-Support Reserve status at time of divorce.
Don't ABUSE the system, if you're going to USE it, use it LEGALLY and FAIRLY. Nothing will gain you enemies here faster than trying to strong arm someone out of money based on made up stuff while YOU sit home and DON'T WORK and using totally bullshyt excuses to do so.
Just sayin'....
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Tweeby
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[quote]well your wrong and the lawyer proved it. the money was already in place, and i'm not dense. people just can't talk nice to people anymore.what a shame [/quote]
Well lets see how many groups of people you managed to upset.
All Dads
The military especially anyone not stationed in the US
Working Mothers (because it is so much better not to have your child in childcare)
SAHM (because they don't want to be viewed what you are doing)
lawyers..well lawyers don't count (Sorry Maury ;P )
Did I miss any?
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Sherron
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"Did I miss any? "
Naaaa, I think you're doing fine.
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