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Re: Weeellll...honestly... [Re: cherokee]
      #602526 - 11/22/09 12:09 PM

So who is paying your bills ?

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Re: Weeellll...honestly... [Re: cherokee]
      #602527 - 11/22/09 12:12 PM

cherokee--- I answered the PM that you sent me.

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Re: Weeellll...honestly... [Re: Cassie23]
      #602540 - 11/22/09 01:05 PM

"he goes to kindergarten for about 3 hours per day, i can't get a job until he's full time school. "
You don't have the option not to have a job. You're not the first single parent to be employed.

"there is no money for someone to watch him.. "
That's where this whole having a job thing comes in pretty handy.


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Re: Weeellll...honestly... [Re: googledad]
      #602558 - 11/22/09 03:11 PM

right now i happen to live with my parents. that's how i'm surviving for now. god bless them for what they have done for me and my son....

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Re: Weeellll...honestly... [Re: cherokee]
      #602571 - 11/22/09 03:53 PM

If you live with your parents, why can't you work, have them watch him temporarily till you save up enough to have him go to daycare for 1/2 the day.

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Re: Weeellll...honestly... [Re: cherokee]
      #602573 - 11/22/09 03:56 PM

Are your parents helping support you right now? I'm confused on why it is fine for you to live with your parents and they help you but it is not fine for your ex to have his Mom live with him and grandma watch the child while he works.

Very few parents are able to take off a lot of time from work. Your ex has more time than most because he gets 30 days per year. While the child is with Dad it is Dad's parenting time and most parents still have to work during their parenting time.


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Re: Weeellll...honestly... [Re: Tweeby]
      #602578 - 11/22/09 04:30 PM

my parents work, they don't have time in the day to watch my son. they are doing a lot right now, as it is. and by the way military gives you leave time that is best for them not for you. yes 30 days, is nice but he can never take them all at once

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Re: Weeellll...honestly... [Re: Miranda]
      #602579 - 11/22/09 04:36 PM

my ex is NOT SUPPORTING me at all. i get no alimony, again thanks to the dope of a lawyer i had. all he gives my son is $9.85 per day..

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So, what DO you DO? [Re: cherokee]
      #602580 - 11/22/09 04:36 PM

Lets see, your parents work to support you, your ex works to support the kid, and you sit around the house and do NOTHING. Get a JOB. Start SUPPORTING yourself and your child.

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Re: Weeellll...honestly... [Re: cherokee]
      #602581 - 11/22/09 04:36 PM

Which is $9.95 a day MORE than YOU give the kid.

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