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gr8Dad
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Re: So, what DO you DO? [Re: youngatheart]
      #602618 - 11/22/09 07:45 PM

NOW your commas are correct...

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Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...


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Re: So, what DO you DO? [Re: Tweeby]
      #602629 - 11/22/09 08:50 PM

tweeby--- $40k a year is his base pay, with the extra's it's around $$$$95,000.00 per year. look into military.com ,and you'll see what they get overseas. that's including about $42.50 per day for cost of living. when his son gets $9.85 per day.....

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Re: So, what DO you DO? [Re: cherokee]
      #602630 - 11/22/09 08:51 PM

Cherokee, if all you're receiving is $300 (or so), and you aren't working - why don't you apply for DHS assistance so that your child can go to daycare and you can work?

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Re: I am CUSTODIAL... [Re: gr8Dad]
      #602633 - 11/22/09 08:53 PM

grdad, what i do in a week you don't do in a month, 3 kids or no 3 kids, you might be one of the few in this world of men that actually step up to the plate. but i see from your wise a-- remarks, your just like the rest..have a good life

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Re: I am CUSTODIAL... [Re: cherokee]
      #602639 - 11/22/09 09:05 PM

You're FOS . Another CP dad here . Try getting $25/MONTH in CS for 2 kids and paying EVERYTHING yourself . BOO HOO she can't work . Can't BS another CNYer , there's loads of daycare assistance around here .

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Re: I am CUSTODIAL... [Re: cherokee]
      #602640 - 11/22/09 09:05 PM

[quote]grdad, what i do in a week you don't do in a month, 3 kids or no 3 kids, you might be one of the few in this world of men that actually step up to the plate. but i see from your wise a-- remarks, your just like the rest..have a good life [/quote]

So let me see. He has all those kids to raise, and you have to deal with one kid...and you have it tougher? Seriously, who are you kidding. As far as men stepping up to the plate...are you trying to be serious? If you really wanted to step up to the plate yourself, you would have ensured that you had an education in place prior to ever having a child, to enable you to work FT and thus pay the cost of that daycare without issue. Your inability to earn enough to support yourself and pay a portion of daycare is not the fault of anyone other than yourself. You're already being subsidized by your parents, so I'm not sure what the issue is. Enjoy a life by yourself, because no man in his right mind would tolerate having to listen to the sexist drivel you're trying to put forth as valid.


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You are very immature... [Re: cherokee]
      #602645 - 11/22/09 09:14 PM

...and it shows. He gets a daily cost of living BECAUSE it costs a WHOLE LOT to live where he lives. Of course, if we use the numbers YOU provide, $42.50 a day, all year, is $15,512.50 a year. Add to that the supposed $2500 a month (which is PROBABLY the $42.50 a day PLUS lodging), but lets assume it is both, that is and extra 45K a year. What you are failing to see is that those things are NOT income. Those things are PER DIEM, they are compensation for extra expenses while in a high cost of living area. Rent in a place like that can cost upwards of $2000 a MONTH for an APARTMENT. So more than HALF of his "per diem" is going to rent, the rest is EATING (if he gets per diem, he does not get meals, so he has to BUY them).

But you right, he should give YOU more of HIS living expenses, so you can sit your lazy ass on your parents COUCH.

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Re: I am CUSTODIAL... [Re: cherokee]
      #602648 - 11/22/09 09:17 PM

Of course, ONE kindergartener is FAR worse tan TWO teenagers and a tweener. And NOT working is MUCH harder than working 40 hours + and going to SCHOOL full time. And living at home with your parents who WORK is MUCH harder than supporting my OWN home and CARING for my disabled parents.

Yeah, you have it SO tough.

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Re: I am CUSTODIAL... [Re: cherokee]
      #602649 - 11/22/09 09:17 PM

[quote]grdad, what i do in a week you don't do in a month, 3 kids or no 3 kids, you might be one of the few in this world of men that actually step up to the plate. but i see from your wise a-- remarks, your just like the rest..have a good life [/quote]

I'm going to take a page out of gr8dad's book.

You are full of sh!t you stupid a$$ b!tch. You have NO fvcking idea what you're talking about. Your ex seriously needs to petitition for custody of his child so hopefully the child will have a chance growing up.

How'd I do gr8dad?


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Re: I am CUSTODIAL... [Re: youngatheart]
      #602650 - 11/22/09 09:19 PM

Hahaha, good job Yah!! ;)

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