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beautifuldreamer
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How do you deal with the pain???
      #619086 - 01/08/10 08:51 PM

I'm 29. I never thought I would be getting a divorce. I am shocked and bewildered and scared and so hurt. The pain is SO bad. How do you get through the hurt?

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Re: How do you deal with the pain??? [Re: beautifuldreamer]
      #619090 - 01/08/10 09:08 PM

time, that's all you have. It's been about 7 months for me and I'm just now getting to where I can move on.

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Re: How do you deal with the pain??? [Re: pokey]
      #619091 - 01/08/10 09:12 PM

This place really seems to help a lot. You can ask anyone on here how I was when I first started. It was bad, real bad. As time goes on your gut stops hurting and you find youself not waiting by the phone hoping they call. I started going to the gym and that helped a little to. It makes me feel better about myself.
gook luck, I know just what you're going through.

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Re: How do you deal with the pain??? [Re: pokey]
      #619306 - 01/09/10 09:42 PM

Get addicted to this site! It will help.

I'M 39.
How do you get through the hurt?
When you get that answered, PLEASE let me know!!!

So whats your story?


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aprilellen7766
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Re: How do you deal with the pain??? [Re: sadad]
      #626080 - 01/25/10 06:16 AM

one day at a time with friends that let you vent and cry on their shoulders

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Re: How do you deal with the pain??? [Re: beautifuldreamer]
      #628323 - 01/31/10 04:34 PM

I wish there was a quick fix that would make all the pain go away and leave us feeling strong to survive the loss, but unfortunatly there is not. I have been seperated from my husband for 11 months and I am just starting to see a small light at the end of my tunnel. All I can advise is to see each day as a day closer to healing.

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