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daliladc
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He got arrested
      #618204 - 01/06/10 03:33 PM

He came home tonight while I was making dinner. As always I had my sons completely under control. They do all the chores around the house except cooking. Cooking is my job. I am so good at it and I am proud of it. It makes me feel so important.

My sons were helping making the table ready for dinner. We have this expensive set of marble furniture in the house. I am so proud of it. I got my husband to buy it through manipulating him, through black-male and threatening him. It is worth about ten thousand dollars.

When he got in he tried to talk to me and I totally ignored him. He said that he really missed having conversations with me, hugging me and making love to me.

This was the perfect opportunity I have been waiting for. I immediately started provoking him, I said: “Why don't you ask your lover for a conversation, hugs and sex?”

I really managed to drive him crazy. He grabbed me by the hair and said that I was completely useless as a wife. My youngest son came to my rescue and grabbed his arm, but he is much stronger and didn't let go. Then he pushed my youngest away with the other hand. My son weighs almost nothing and he flew across the floor and hit the wall.

I screamed to my other son to dial 911 which he did. He remained on the phone until the police arrived. When the police entered the house they started asking questions. The children were doing most of the talking. They described what had happened and the police took away my husband in handcuffs.

There was a police woman with them who explained to me that they (the district attorney) will press criminal charges against my husband. It would be several months before he is to appear in front of a Judge, and that in the mean time I should get a Temporary Protective Order filed against him so that I could be safe.

The police women also said that she will send a social worker over to the house tomorrow and that the social worker will explain my options as a domestic violence victim. The social worker will also take me to court and help me file for the Temporary Protective Order.

I finally did it. He is screwed. I can’t wait ‘til tomorrow.

Actually I am also worried: Who is going to pay the bills? Who will pay the mortgage on the house? How will I get money for groceries?

Lucky for me my husband left his wallet behind. He won't need it while he is in jail. I know the PIN to his debit cards. Tomorrow I’ll go shopping with his credit cards and go to the ATM and empty his bank account.

That should get me enough to last for a while until I figure something out.


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Sherron
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Re: He got arrested [Re: daliladc]
      #618242 - 01/06/10 06:22 PM

You need some serious help.

"How will I get money for groceries? "
Try prostitution.


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javajunkiee
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Re: He got arrested [Re: Sherron]
      #618264 - 01/06/10 06:52 PM

Which one? Anonymous troll or Yregna off his meds?

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Sherron
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Re: He got arrested [Re: javajunkiee]
      #618278 - 01/06/10 07:20 PM

Wait... there is an yregna ON his meds??

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javajunkiee
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Re: He got arrested [Re: Sherron]
      #618284 - 01/06/10 07:34 PM

Yep - the diff is if he wishes a violent death on a poster as opposed to the op getting killed by a disease.

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Re: He got arrested [Re: javajunkiee]
      #618385 - 01/07/10 01:11 AM

Doesn't the younger son sound like a total wimp ?

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Re: He got arrested [Re: finz]
      #618573 - 01/07/10 02:05 PM

I think this one and Arietto(?) are one and the same!

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Re: He got arrested [Re: mommyof9]
      #619724 - 01/10/10 09:31 PM

yup

too coincidental to be otherwise


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philivey
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Re: He got arrested [Re: finz]
      #621121 - 01/13/10 10:55 AM

this just makes me want to careless about people and their feelings.

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useb
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Re: He got arrested [Re: Sherron]
      #664210 - 05/30/10 11:43 PM

what the hell is wrong with you. she needs to do whatever it takes to take care of herself and she did. have you evere expereinced fear for your life? I have for years. this was her safety plan. have mercy and I pray you are never hurt by anyone. please think of others feelings

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