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Tweety
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rules of sole custody?
      #687 - 07/11/04 02:57 PM

I am currently going through a divorce because my husband decide to leave me and my daughter for the woman he has been having an affair with. I refuse to allow him to have my daughter around her. I am going for sole cutody, and if I am granted it, is there any way legally to prevent him from bringing my daughter around her? I live in Indiana if that helps?

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cutywyf
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Re: rules of sole custody? [Re: Tweety]
      #696 - 07/11/04 04:53 PM

I don't know what the laws are in your state, however, the likelyhood of you getting sold legal/physical custody are slim. Especially if he was a decent father prior to his affair and leaving. You also will not be able to prevent him from introducing his daughter to this new person. This is the ugliness of divorce. You certainly should go thru a private mediator and try to hash out some of your concerns but you also have to think reasonably. Don't let your emotions make decisions for you.

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Re: rules of sole custody? [Re: cutywyf]
      #709 - 07/11/04 05:43 PM

I know in NC that adultery (sp) is a factor in determining who gets custody.

I don't think you can stop your child from being around this person, unless you ask for no overnights with the opposite sex. However, the same can be done to you.

I guess all you can do is ask an attorney.


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WhatALife
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Re: rules of sole custody? [Re: GraceAdler]
      #711 - 07/11/04 07:57 PM

Soul custody, that was my first thought too. But after reading the child custody rights, I realized that I was doing everything they are there to prevent. The best advise you need right now is get some counseling to help you deal with the pain and hurt you are feeling. With any luck you will realize that using your daughter as a pon to get back at him will end up hurting your daughter, and that is not what you want. Deal with the pain and you will think clear in the end.

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Re: rules of sole custody? [Re: cutywyf]
      #762 - 07/13/04 11:08 AM

You can stipulate that you don't want your child in the presence of that person. The judge may agree.

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