hanzblinx
enthusiast
Reged: 08/13/10
Posts: 380
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If she offers 6K you offer 4K.
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yregna
veteran
Reged: 07/25/06
Posts: 1265
Loc: Oregon
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Make sure your ex knows she will forever be looking over her shoulder, and that someday you intend to gouge the alimony $$ out of her empty eye sockets.
Your choice if that happens before / after she expires...
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"Anything free is worth what you pay for it..."
"Climate is what we expect, weather is what we get"
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BurnedbyDivorce
recently joined
Reged: 10/31/09
Posts: 12
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LOL!!! You have no idea. :) If only there wasn't a body of water between us.
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BurnedbyDivorce
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Reged: 10/31/09
Posts: 12
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I offered $5K to terminate support and all payments made until agreement be deducted from that amount. According to "my" attorney, "her" attorney agreed to the $5K. My attorney sent her attorney's wife, who happens to be his secretary, a copy of the agreement to look over. The wife, told the ex of the proposal, who then said "No... counter with $7K." I say... NO DEAL!!! $5K of bust... I will spend that money on lawyer fees to have it dropped to zero before I give her a penny more.
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BurnedbyDivorce
recently joined
Reged: 10/31/09
Posts: 12
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Right... no need for $2500+ in lawyer fees. She has agreed to waive the retainer and just charge to draft up the paperwork. It's still adding up though. I had no idea that attorneys charge for every little thing. Phone calls answered, made... emails read, drafted... etc. Spent close to $300 last month just on this stuff.
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BurnedbyDivorce
recently joined
Reged: 10/31/09
Posts: 12
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BTW... I sent an Income and Expense declaration over a month and a half ago to her. Still nothing back. My lawyer is threatening contempt. Maybe that will motivate her.
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Goodmom
Pooh-Bah
Reged: 06/17/07
Posts: 2019
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[quote]I offered $5K to terminate support and all payments made until agreement be deducted from that amount. According to "my" attorney, "her" attorney agreed to the $5K. My attorney sent her attorney's wife, who happens to be his secretary, a copy of the agreement to look over. The wife, told the ex of the proposal, who then said "No... counter with $7K." I say... NO DEAL!!! $5K of bust... I will spend that money on lawyer fees to have it dropped to zero before I give her a penny more. [/quote]
You really aren't in a good bargaining position. Your ex does not have to settle at all.
And then you will be paying more than $7K.
Of course, that's your choice.
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scaredwoman
newbie
Reged: 10/18/10
Posts: 27
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wow, I need to know how these women are screwing the men!!! I am dealing with a husband who has a judge niece, and he is getting so much help!!! I brought everything into the marriage, spent inheritance money this Spring and summer, and I am the one out in cold!!!!
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