philivey
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My wife has make threats that she will call 911 and report abuse when there really is none. She mostly uses it as a power game to get me to do what she wants. If she does call 911 at some point what do I do? She has out right told me she'd do it and fake it all for the kids. She says that if she calls 911 and fakes being hurt the judge will more likely than not award the kids. What the heck is this? I don't get it?
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MrsB
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Why after everything you've posted are you and the children even still living with her?
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philivey
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Because I take it and she really hasn't done anything in front of the children. My 12 step daugh is usually in bed and my 5 month year old is too young to understand. Plus, anything major is diffused by parents. I still take hits though. Partly, I blame myself for having a lack in character.
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finz
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Because he is a moron who keeps asking for advice and keeps refusing to heed it.
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philivey
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I have a lot of respect for your advice and when I feel it necessary I will use my best judgement and act accordingly. I have a very complicated situation with alot of peoples lives/feelings at stake. I am not going to make a snap judgement on a divorce based on impulse. I am a very logically person who thinks situations out. It's just in my nature.
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Maury
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"Partly, I blame myself for having a lack in character."
I imagine that provides you with the real problem. Now, you must decide how to fix it.
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connie60
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Its all about control honey, thats what it is !!!!! She thinks that she has control over you. You will just have to find a way to prove her wrong. There are many liers in this world and they will go overboard to get what they want. You will just have to figure out a way to stay one step ahead of her. Possibly a tape recorder in your pocket so you can catch her red handed with her threats. A hidden cam corder is also a good idea!!!!!
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aircraft1966
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Dude, your wife is a [censored]. My wife recently filed ex parte emergency protective orders, I was kept from my house and she raided the accounts. Yes our marriage sucked and she didn't do anything around the house, but I made the mistake of marrying a woman twice divorce. I guess I'm here third victim.
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