GettingNervous
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finz, thank you. I believe it's bs as well. But until the courts rule something, anything, that's the way it is. The problem being she wants me out of the kids lives. Have you ever heard of such a thing? I'm a great father and dad and I guess she can't handle that. It makes her mad when the kids talk about me. What's a guy to do?
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connie60
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As far as giving your sisters the gift of houses, as long as they have the deed in thier hands, i dont think that would be a problem.
As far as child support, i dont understand??? There should be set times for you to see the children, i dont understand why she has to be there??? This is not normal at all.
You may need to talk to a different attorney, one that will do his or her job as far as the child support. Your x is playing head games with you and getting away with it. I think its time to be more aggresive with the visitation issues.
The sad part is, your x is also playing games with your children, and that is a terrible thing. They should be allowed time with thier father, alone!!!!
I know you feel stuck, but you are not, you just need the right attorney to talk to and take action!!!! Some x's are very angry and bitter and will try to make you suffer. Been there and done that also.
Best of luck!!!
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GettingNervous
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Thank you connie60. I don't understand either. Every time my attorney makes a statement about child custody, my stbx pipes in and says "he's not taking MY kids". The judge then says "Okay, we'll set another date to see if you two can work this out on your own before then". And that's that. There is nothing more to discuss. She goes home all smiles and I am devastated. She knows she has me by the gonads and there's nothing I can do. The attorney I have is suppose to be one of the best in the area, but the judges won't let him speak. It's all about my stbx. Can't wait till the final hearing and see how much I'm going to have to pay her in spousal support and probably for the rest of her life.
Does anyone out there know the chances of her getting support forever or until she remarries? Can there be a time limit on it in the great Commonwealth of VA for a marriage of more than 20 years? She has been a stay at home mom for most of the marriage, but has worked on and off for a few months at a time and most recently she has worked for the past 3 years making a little more than minimum wage. I make in the mid $50k’s and right now paying the entire mortgage, child support and carrying all of the health insurance. Basically the money that enters her hands is hers except for food and utilities. I have to live with my folks because I can’t afford to rent an efficiency.
I really can’t wait for this to be over. I want my life back.
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BeachBabeRN
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Loc: VA for 21 years, NC forever!
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Dude, what area of the state are you in? If you want to PM me with it, feel free -- if I know any good attorneys that will go after her, I'll let you know.
You not having set visitation is a crock.
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