Redlegg
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Advise members of the Air Force policy that they are expected to provide adequate financial
support to family members and the procedures which the family member may implement to
obtain involuntary collection of support through garnishment or statutory allotments. See attached
fact sheet, Attachment 1.
Follow the procedures. If you feel something is not right, or the Chain of Command is not following the AFI, you should see the IG, after you have notified the Chain of Command. The Chain of Command deserves at least the chance to try. Their number, and your number may not be the same, and adequate is a very subjective word.
There is a system in place for you to get support, one they have a duty to comply with, and remedies for when they don't.
The IG not only listens to complaints, but they insure that commands are following the AFI's. The IG cannot force a command to do anything, they can suggest things that would bring them in compliance, but it is always up to the Command to implement them.
Follow the AFI, the procedures outlined in it, and see what happens.
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Miranda
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Reged: 06/02/05
Posts: 20822
Loc: North of Mexico
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SVS merged a few years ago at MAJCOM level, at least they did here at AETC and I know SVS squadrons are now called FSS as they merged with personnel and manpower.
I just checked and luckily for your situation you have a military commander. We have civilian commanders here with military deputies (vomit).
You say that it is all said and done yet your husband is not paying? I guess I don't understand the problem then? You stated that the Shirt has it all under control but then you don't have any money because he is not paying you or has only paid you $100. So which is it?
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brokenglass
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Reged: 11/26/10
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I did not state that the shirt has it all under control. I stated that the shirt has issued orders to my husband as he refuses to comply. The shirt is also attempting to stay neutral, and try to stop my husband from having serious career problems as a result of his behavior. The shirt spoke to my brother's shirt, who then explained to my brother that my husband has been ordered into all sorts of counseling in an attempt to keep his behavior in check as it's violating many AFI's.
I received a phone call today from my husband's attorney who told me that if I do not withdraw my motion for temporary support until I can find a job, my husband will stop paying our rent and all utilities, and have the car repossessed. He then told me he's spoken to my husband's shirt twice, and both times the shirt told him that my husband was absolutely allowed to put myself and my 2 kids in the street, and he asked me if I really wanted to be responsible for my kids going into foster care because of my behavior.
Needless to say, I will not be withdrawing SH*T.
Edited by brokenglass (11/30/10 12:10 AM)
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Miranda
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Reged: 06/02/05
Posts: 20822
Loc: North of Mexico
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It can be very slippery when lawyers get involved. Divorce is a civil matter contrary to popular belief and most Shirt and Commanders don't like to get involved especially when things are already in the courts.
I remember when I was in we had a Master Sgt. going thru a NASTY divorce and he and his wife had two horses. He shot BOTH of them so that she could not have one in the property settlement. Divorce sucks, and I hope you get thru this ok.
Good luck.
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