MamaK
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I keep forgetting....on the internet lurk people who are sick in their minds and love to have fun trying to say things that will hurt others.
Taking a military power of attorney and getting an apartment that is not in your name (we didn't find out about that until 2 months ago but it was done in 2004) is FRAUD. We didn't get the cell phone bills until last year. The numbers originate from her state.
I don't even know why I'm giving you folks sport, you're all so smart and have done things so much better. Foolish indeed. Step into his shoes so called dedicated dad. I bet you haven't done half that he has! And gotten crapped on. My brother has been through the same. Oh, and psychic one, he pays automatically.
Why did I even bother asking, 99% of you are not here to help, you're here because you have nothing else better to do at work.
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MamaK
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[quote]What you will find on here is a number of women who, while EMOTIONALLY scarred by their divorces, were not FINANCIALLY scarred. I have been in his shoes. It is easy to say, "Well, just go PAY someone to do ____." But when you do not have the MONEY, it can be a daunting task. [/quote]
THANK YOU. He doesn't have the money after trying to live in a place that requires double what he has after all the taxes and child support are taken out. Where's the money to hire the lawyer when you're trying to eat, clothe yourself and family and keep a roof over your head?
He supports FIVE PEOPLE without complaint, the child support keeps a roof over [censored]'s head. A lot of people are asking why he didn't fight back sooner, but that doesn't make him a bad person, it makes him a grieving person over someone he thought loved him who ruined his life, keeps his kids from him (you still have to pay filing fees to go to court), and continues to feel like she's owed money.
There are obviously a lot of bitter people on here who don't get it at all. But I appreciate that you have.
My brother had to pay $900 a month in child support (he brought home maybe $400 a month after that) for his daughter and a child that wasn't his because his [censored] babymama knew someone in the CS office! Does that make him a fool??? Jeez!
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MamaK
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[quote]Had I known how long he had been separated without a divorce prior to having my child I might not have stayed.
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You slept with and had a child with a man when you didn't even know how long he had been seperated?
Sorry, but what you are dealing with now are the consequences for YOUR actions and choices. [/quote]
You must be a fundie Christian. Only a crazy right-winger would talk out of her sphinchter muscle like that.
He told me he was separated. I thought that meant the divorce was in progress. MY BAD CANKERWHORE. DO YOU THINK I DIDN'T ASK? WELL CANKERWHORE, MY STROKE HISTORY COMPLICATED MY PREGNANCY...and we went from being a two-income couple to a one-income family REALLY QUICKLY. Eating became more important than getting revenge. I hope you're sitting well on your alimony. What part of I was decived did you not understand, and who the [censored] are you to judge me?
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Miranda
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Wow. You seem to be the one with some emotional problems.
THe bottom line is, is that he is still legally married to her so unless he does something to stop the madness it is going to continue. He has chosen it for the last 12 years now.
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Miranda
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[quote]What you will find on here is a number of women who, while EMOTIONALLY scarred by their divorces, were not FINANCIALLY scarred. I have been in his shoes. It is easy to say, "Well, just go PAY someone to do ____." But when you do not have the MONEY, it can be a daunting task. [/quote]
First off that is untrue. Secondly if that was the case you don't wait 12 years to change things. If you got robbed 12 years ago, you should have acted then. There is not much you can do about it now 12 years later as they are still married.
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gr8Dad
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It can cost a LOT to get divorced, and some simply do not have the money.
"First off that is untrue."
So are you saying there are NOT women on here for who money is not an issue, or at least the amount to hire a lawyer and file for divorce?
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Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...
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Miranda
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[quote]It can cost a LOT to get divorced, and some simply do not have the money.
"First off that is untrue."
So are you saying there are NOT women on here for who money is not an issue, or at least the amount to hire a lawyer and file for divorce? [/quote]
Huh? I was referring your comment about being emotionally scarred versus finacially scarred.
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gr8Dad
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So there are not women on here who do not have money problems from the divorce, but are emotionally scarred?
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Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...
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Sherron
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"Thank you to the handful of people on this thread and others who have responded in a mature manner. The rest of you can suck it. "
Lol.
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Miranda
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[quote]So there are not women on here who do not have money problems from the divorce, but are emotionally scarred? [/quote]
What? I feel like I am bantering with Yoda.
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