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There's a great post over on Doover on "Protecting Your Children During Divorce"
I hope it helps!
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My parents divorced when I was just three months old, this of course did made life difficult for me as a child growing up. I cannot emphasise enough how important it is for parents to put their selfishness aside and put their children first. If the last resort is divorce, parents should endeavour a system is in place to help their children cope and move on with their lives successfully.
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[quote]My parents divorced when I was just three months old, this of course did made life difficult for me as a child growing up. I cannot emphasise enough how important it is for parents to put their selfishness aside and put their children first. If the last resort is divorce, parents should endeavour a system is in place to help their children cope and move on with their lives successfully. [/quote]
I very much disagree with this.
My parents stayed together "for the children" and let me tell you, my childhood was just as crazy as anyone else's.
They always, ALWAYS, joked that as soon as we were grown and out of school, they were parting ways.
We were never sure if they were serious or not.
Then, when my baby brother graduated college, lo and behold they got a divorce.
I don't know what my childhood would have been like if my parents had divorced when we were younger, but it could have made things easier on my parents.
Kids pick up when their parents are unhappy.
I know that my parents' relationship certainly made me question a lot of things growing up.
Why were they together if they weren't in love?
Marriage, especially one with kids, is a tricky business is one or both parties want it to end.
There is no one right answer. Everyone has to do what they feel is the right thing.
My parents are now divorced and happier than ever. They're on better terms now than what I remember them being as a kid. They are extremely civil and communicate with my siblings and I better as a whole.
It makes me wonder what my teen years would have been like if they'd gone through with it sooner. I probably would have had a better relationship with them.
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