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Re: ON topic, ladies, tell me WHY? [Re: spinnerdegrassi]
      #720298 - 01/02/11 01:01 PM

But she HAD to, cause he showed up at her job, and she claims the police told her to QUIT her job. Sorry, NOT buying that her stbx showed up at the school she was working at, she called the police, and they told her to QUIT her job. Just NOT buying it, BTDT with a DV call, they would NEVER EVER EVER do that. He was TRESSPASSING on the school grounds, they MIGHT have told him to leave and dropped it, yeah, I could see that, but the response, "Well, maam, I know he was tresspassing, but if you want him to stop, well, I guess you will have to just quit your job..."

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Re: ON topic, ladies, tell me WHY? [Re: gr8Dad]
      #720299 - 01/02/11 01:02 PM

"Oh yeah, she WANTED to move back to New York, where she KNEW (as she has admitted she could not find work, as she was no longer qualified) she could not find work."

Another convenient misinterpretation, Gr8. Where have I admitted that I "KNEW" I "could not find work" in NY when I left him? I had not applied for full-time work in NY since I was hired up here years ago, so I did not know the requirements had changed.

And I did not have a job for 7-8 months after I left him. I made very little that year.


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Re: ON topic, ladies, tell me WHY? [Re: Sherron]
      #720300 - 01/02/11 01:03 PM

It was MY thread, SHE came on here and started crap, I am simply responding. I said NOTHING about her situation until SHE came into a thread that a few of us were discussing why a guy would get married.

But again, she's not big on personal responsibility, so I expecting paperwork asking me to pay her alimony any day now.

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Re: ON topic, ladies, tell me WHY? [Re: gr8Dad]
      #720301 - 01/02/11 01:03 PM

He was receiving more BAH due to being married to her. So, you think it's ok for him to benefit from that, while not holding up to his responsibilities in receiving those funds. Got it.

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Re: ON topic, ladies, tell me WHY? [Re: spinnerdegrassi]
      #720302 - 01/02/11 01:03 PM

"Well techincally, you left him, so I'm not sure there is really an issue with him living with someone else since you decided to leave the state."

Technically, it was adultery.


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Re: ON topic, ladies, tell me WHY? [Re: english7]
      #720305 - 01/02/11 01:08 PM

"It was MY thread, SHE came on here and started crap, I am simply responding."

Just can't help yourself, can you...


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Re: ON topic, ladies, tell me WHY? [Re: SweetLight]
      #720306 - 01/02/11 01:08 PM

"He was receiving more BAH due to being married to her. So, you think it's ok for him to benefit from that, while not holding up to his responsibilities in receiving those funds. Got it."

He was giving her the extra BAH, in the amount of $300 a month. She wants MORE.

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Re: ON topic, ladies, tell me WHY? [Re: Sherron]
      #720308 - 01/02/11 01:10 PM

FYI -- again, without venturing any opinion whatsoever --

In Virginia, if you are divorcing someone with whom you have had no children, the waiting period is six months, not 12. And if someone wants to say that they committed adultery, you can file immediately, with no waiting period, unless there are minor children.

I'm just saying....


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Re: ON topic, ladies, tell me WHY? [Re: Sherron]
      #720309 - 01/02/11 01:10 PM

Why the HELL should I HAVE to? I DID ignore her for quite a few posts, she kept it up, so I responded. Of course, I am in the wrong. Blow it out your ass.

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Re: ON topic, ladies, tell me WHY? [Re: Sherron]
      #720310 - 01/02/11 01:10 PM

[quote]My goodness... this is still going on lol? Gr8... honestly... why are so hung up on this situation? Are you the one who will be paying english or do you just enjoy kicking her around again... [/quote]


Huh? English7 again brought this into a thread.

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