Miranda
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[quote]"Can you? Good gawd. "
I didn't enter this thread until he decided he was speaking for the entire board, Miss Board Monitor. [/quote]
Sherron really? you say gr8dad can't let it go and you are what? A "do gooder". I say YOU can't let it go and I am the board monitor? Really?
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13.1...because I am only half crazy!
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gr8Dad
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That's funny, YOU telling ME what not to post, and then calling someone a "Board Monitor" for criticizing you for it. I knew there was a reason you were on ignore.
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Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...
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english7
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Beach:
"Under each ground for an absolute divorce, there is a provision for when you can bring the lawsuit against your spouse to the court.. . In a claim of desertion, however, you may have a time-limit problem. Whether the desertion was actual or constructive, you must wait a year after the event of desertion before you file for an absolute divorce. For a voluntary separation, you must have been voluntarily separated for at least 6 months if you have a valid separation agreement and there are no minor children. If you don't have a separation agreement and there are minor children, you must wait one year.
The closet the Commonwealth of Virginia has to a "no fault" divorce is known as voluntary separation. It usually means that you and your spouse have separated after mutually and voluntarily agreeing that you no longer wish to live together as husband and wife and that there is no hope for reconciliation. Your spouse cannot threaten or black mail you into leaving on this ground; you separate because you want to. To get a divorce on this ground you have to be separated for one year if you have minor children and or no separation agreement; or six months if you do not have minor children and you have a valid separation agreement. In Virginia you can be living separate and apart under the same roof, but this is difficult to prove, and you will have to prove it at the hearing."
We did not have a sep. agreement. He planned to sue for grounds of desertion. He later went for the no fault.
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SweetLight
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I think it's not really wise to speak for everyone on this site. Retracted or not, people will be offended by it.
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english7
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"There is no requirement that an AF member has to send his BAH to a spouse. NONE.
And no one in the AF is deployed for two years. That would be a PCS."
True, but if he doesn't support his dependents wit it, and it is brought tot he attention of CO, then he will have it removed from his pay.
He deployed twice, with 30 days between.
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gr8Dad
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"We did not have a sep. agreement. He planned to sue for grounds of desertion. He later went for the no fault."
Why didn't YOU file on the grounds of ABUSE?
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Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...
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Sherron
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"Sherron really? you say gr8dad can't let it go and you are what? A "do gooder". I say YOU can't let it go and I am the board monitor? Really? "
He said he spoke for everyone when he did not. So I disagreed and dropped it when it was obvious he was not interested in understanding. Hardly not letting it go. You're right though, my comment today wasn't necessary... just an expression of amazement that the "beat english up" thread is still being continued.
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english7
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"Huh? English7 again brought this into a thread."
Scroll up, Miranda. I had no intention of bringing it up again.
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spinnerdegrassi
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I don't think it's a beat up approach. I think it's trying to rationalize why support should be paid in a situation where someone voluntarily quit a job, moved to a location where they did not have a job when there was not a need to.
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english7
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"Why didn't YOU file on the grounds of ABUSE?"
I had no $$ to retain an attorney. When he filed, I counter filed (cross-complaint) with assault as fault ground.
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