english7
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"He could have gotten a temporary order of support, which would have ended all the suspense about what was fair in the interim."
The reason he did not do that was b/c he continued to pressure me to sign his separation agreement which would not only give me nothing whatsoever, but would also have me pay him. Nothing else was in his plans.
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Redlegg
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So it was a conscious choice to not pursue it on his part, and he already knew he was ordered to pay some support through the AF. He was rolling the dice on having to pay less. Someone did not blink, and here we are......
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SweetLight
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The marriage was not 13 months. It was 3 yrs, 7 months.
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gr8Dad
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"I mean what was the guy thinking..."
Not sure, maybe he was distracted by the WAR ZONE he was deployed to...who knows.
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Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...
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english7
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Yup Red. He was holding out in hopes I would weaken. He told me he would not give me more than the AF BAH b/c I would not sign his sep. agreement (which gave me less than nothing). That's his logic. He thought he could fool me. He even had his lawyer send me a threatening letter telling me to sign his agreement. I've saved it.
I believe he enjoyed putting me through all that while he shacked up with the exotic dancer.
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gr8Dad
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But WHY should a person with a MASTER'S degree, and a JOB, have to get PAID for a separation? Oh yeah, she WANTED to move back to New York, where she KNEW (as she has admitted she could not find work, as she was no longer qualified) she could not find work. SO you feel that the SPIRIT of the law is to reward a person who leaves a place where she is employed, moves to a place where she cannot BE employed, and she gets PAID for that? What about HER concious decisions?
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Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...
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SweetLight
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Why are you incapable of looking at his decisions?
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spinnerdegrassi
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Well techincally, you left him, so I'm not sure there is really an issue with him living with someone else since you decided to leave the state.
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gr8Dad
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His decison to WHAT? TO make her quit her job? Didn't happen. To make her run back to New York? Didn't happen.
EVERY justification she has for the amount of alimony she is asking for is based on decisions SHE made.
Oh, and to correct you, the marriage was 13 months, the ENTIRE thing was 3 yrs and 7 months.
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Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...
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Sherron
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My goodness... this is still going on lol? Gr8... honestly... why are so hung up on this situation? Are you the one who will be paying english or do you just enjoy kicking her around again...
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