finz
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[quote]So if I get a credit card and put YOUR name on it, thus you did NOT consent, you have knowledge of it? You know, it is possible to NOT consent BECAUSE you had no knowledge of it, right? Point removed. He did not say he REFUSED to consent, he said WITHOUT his consent. [/quote]
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against his wishes too......
How did he know to wish against it ?
I'm a 'mean what you say and say what you mean' kind of girl. If you are trying to say, she did it without my knowledge....you say THAT. If you say 'without my consent and against my wishes' it means she asked, he said "No" and she did it anyhow.
If he meant to say, "She never asked my permission to do this and I was clear before we even married that I was opposed to buying anything on credit"....then say THAT.
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gr8Dad
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"And if it is in a community property state, it will be 50/50. Which it should be."
So you think one party SHOULD be allowed to spend the couple into bankruptcy, then SPLIT the debt with the main wage earner? Why is that?
-------------------- Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...
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gr8Dad
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Well, hopefully the OP can clear it up when he comes back.
-------------------- Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...
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Sherron
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"That doesn't mean he's liable for any of it. If the judge finds she was being wanton in her spending, they can assign all the debt to her (which they should)"
I don't think the creditors have to follow a divorce decree.
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spinnerdegrassi
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[quote]"And if it is in a community property state, it will be 50/50. Which it should be."
So you think one party [WOMAN] SHOULD be allowed to spend the couple into bankruptcy, then SPLIT the debt with the main wage earner?[MAN] Why is that? [/quote]
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spinnerdegrassi
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[quote]"That doesn't mean he's liable for any of it. If the judge finds she was being wanton in her spending, they can assign all the debt to her (which they should)"
I don't think the creditors have to follow a divorce decree. [/quote]
If the debt is in her name, then he wouldn't be worrying about creditors. If my wife opened up a cc in her name and spent huge amounts on it, it's not going to affect my credit rating if she doesn't pay it off.
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Sherron
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"If the debt is in her name, then he wouldn't be worrying about creditors. If my wife opened up a cc in her name and spent huge amounts on it, it's not going to affect my credit rating if she doesn't pay it off. "
I'd like to hear Maury's take on it, but I think you're wrong.
ETA: it may vary from state to state?
Edited by Sherron (01/13/11 09:45 PM)
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gr8Dad
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Mine was COMPLETELY gender neutral...yet I bet they don't start calling YOU a woman hater.
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spinnerdegrassi
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If they do, I'll just tell them to get in the kitchen and make me a sandwich.
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finz
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*sigh*
Spinner isn't a woman hater. Men don't have the boobies to keep him interested for long......
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