mas1313
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Well, I've done it again! I thought I had learned my lesson with my first wife. I married her after living together for a year so that we would know each other and have a good marriage. We lasted 7 years. she got into the party life, dancing and going to country/western dance club and that started the end of our marriage. I'm not into partying and I can't dance, so she went with her dance team friends, which included my mother. She was constantly being hit on and she took it to heart and one thing led to another and she ended up just walking out one day. I was completely taken by surprise and we ended up divorcing. I still loved her and let her have half of everything. I eventually started dating again and got together with the secretary at work who was a very nice down to earth girl. We dated for 3 years before getting married. We had a good life and got along great except when she would get a little moody but that would pass. I'm not very good with words and showing how I feel and I do admit that, but i always gave her what she wanted and gave her cards that said how I felt about her. We traveled, did work projects together and, generally was together doing things all the time. One day my next door neighbor called and told me she was at the house with a u-haul and two guys loading things up. I rushed home to find a note on the counter saying she didn't love me and not to contact her or her family. I am totally destroyed! I have no clue about what is the matter. I have never abused her or run around on her or drank or did drugs. she has no grounds for divorce but the papers came yesterday and she is asking for alimony (we have been married 6 years) No children and she has a good job making good money. She has already taken most of what she wanted when she left. Can someone tell me if this seems fair? I will get a lawyer and I won't let her take me for everything like my first wife did. Any one out there have any suggestions?
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M5M5
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No real advice here, but you should post in the Alimony/spousal support board. The TN board doesnt' get much traffic...you'll get more responses there. Good luck!
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