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justdad
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Lost for ideas

#709849 - 11/28/10 07:22 AM

Well here it goes. I'm just getting out of a 8yr relationship and my ex has taking my daughter and moved to her mothers and put her into a new school then filied custody papers so I can't move her home. Im okay with this being its only 15 miles away.

Now the difficult part we sperated for all sorts of reason but that isn't why im here. She is very mad and resentful at me. She put a partental plan in to the courts which we haven't been to yet. She will only allow me to see my daughter if it is at her house with her family there which is tough considering the seperation, but I have been doing it, but now I'm tired of the tension and she has no right to do this atleast I believe. I have never harmed my daughter I have been in her life since day one. I worked graveyard to not have to pay child care, took her to school every day and picked her up. But the problem with the situation is it is when it is convient for her. I have to sit around and wait to hear when I can see my 5yr child and drop what im doing right then and there. I have asked her to give me a set time to see her so it would be much easier for her and me and she won't. The proposed partenting plan is I can see her on Sun. from 10am till 8pm and on Monday and Tuesday until 8pm. I have asked that I get her on sunday from 10am until Wed. morning when I bring her to school. The mom will not go for this cause she says its to hard for my child to get up a half hour earier, but it was an extra hour when she lived at the house. Also that I shouldnt get her over night until shes on summer break. Any ideas to what I should do? I know its kind of summed up short there is a lot I left out but this is the basics. Also this is Washinton State if that means anything.

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Miranda
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Re: Lost for ideas

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#709926 - 11/28/10 03:14 PM

Why are you letting her call the shots like this?

What papers did she file and did you respond to her motion? Do you have a lawyer?

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#710005 - 11/28/10 09:55 PM

Have you been to court yet ?

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Re: Lost for ideas

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#740541 - 04/10/11 08:51 PM

You need temporary orders and you need them fast.
Even if you can't afford a lawyer you can file yourself. Call a document preparer. I did. Unless there's stuff you're not telling us this all needs to change right now. I got things changed from 5 hours a week to joint custody and 50/50 in sex months. I wouldn't want to go through it again but I'm proud of what I accomplished. Still fighting though.

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