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      #740907 - 04/13/11 08:32 AM

- facebook.com/bellia666

... I take it you are disgusted by this FB page... with all honesty - so am I... I am utterly disgusted by this entire deal: Pretending to be in love, pretending to be the perfect wife until he marries you. Then claim domestic abuse and contact a VAWA shelter - immigration fraud/scan.

I am so disgusted by this issue and I am so disgusted by the law - VAWA - and the doctrines, police procedures, family court procedures shelter procedures and USCIS procedures (the Vermont SC) that enable and encourage this kind to happen.

The reason why I am so disgusted is because when I hold it against my values and the meaning of life as I undertand it - marrying a wife, building a family, raising children etc. - it just doesn't make any sense - for me it is pure corruption - someone's way to legally scam money from the US tax payer.

So... what I am doing is going to extremes on pupose!!! If I am successful - someone important will soon realize how disgusting this entire deal is...

... to pass a law that encourages immigrant women to pretend to be in love, pretend to be the perfect wife, prostitute themselves until an American citizen marries her. Then claim domestic abuse and contact a VAWA shelter - for a Green-Card and a tonne of social services.

The more people are disgusted by it, the closer I get to raising awareness, and the closer I get to my goal.

Out of all the VAWA fraud stories I have read, I believe mine is the most extreme. I was ill, recovering from a surgery when Martha's decided it was enough for her, and that it was time to go to the police and start the false accusations process and to contact a VAWA funded shelter and get her Green-Card and all the social benefits she could get pretending to be a victim.

Our marriage lasted only 3 months - nothing that can be considered a "real marriage". The Judge dismissed her false accusations and the divorce decree was worded like an annulment.

Now explain this to me: If the judge knew it was marriage fraud and lies for the purpose of VAWA fraud, how come Martha has her Green-Card?

ICE told me that when I called them about this fraud story. ICE officers are also aware of this type of fraud, but from some corrupted political reason their hands are tied.

This means that practically any immigrant women who prostitutes herself until a Citizen or a legal resident agrees to marry her, and then asks a VAWA funded shelter to help her, gets a Green-Card - automatically!!!

This means that all an immigrant woman needs is a marriage certificate with a Citizen or a legal resident... that's why Martha picked me when I wasn't even a citizen... and abused me for three years.

How can USCIS and the US government expect her citizens to respect them when they provide incentives for this to happen?

There are quite a few of these Psychopathic Immigrants who would do whatever it takes to defraud and deceive you into marrying them. Once they have the desired marriage certificate they figure they do not need you anymore (which is unfortunately true thanks to VAWA) they 'devalue' you. Devaluation is what NPDs and Psychopaths do when they have finished getting (abusing) what they wanted to get from you. You become worthless in their eyes. You become disposable!

Following the devaluation is the display of the complete absence of empathy of the NPD/Psychopath. They are capable of any degree of harm and/or damage to their victim. They would stop at nothing. No lie is too big for them. They are capable of creating a complete web of lies in order to carry out their plan and succeed with their objectives - leaving you, the victim utterly appalled, stunned, with varying levels of PTSD.

Incredible... that an individual can cause so much damage... not something I would expect of a human being.

Some people in fact do not consider them (NPDs and Psychopaths) to be human.


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Blah Blah [Re: alrietto]
      #740918 - 04/13/11 09:32 AM

More blah blah blah.

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