craya
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I remarried 1 year ago after being divorced for 2 years and my ex and I are exploring seeing each other again. My ex and I were married for 15 years with 3 children and we were both very hurt when we divorced. My current husband gets real upset when I spend alone time with my children who go back and forth between their dad and I. His 4 kids don't visit on a regular basis and the youngest is 17 but he goes to many sporting events with his kids that I'm not invited to. One of my children is special needs and requires more attention. I'm ready to call this marriage quits because my children come first and I still love my ex. My husband and I were both on the rebound when we met and just jumped into things. Any advice is appreciated because I'm not sure what to do and if I do end current marriage how do I tell my husband. Also to add to it my step children treat me and my kids like freaks.
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SRS
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Quit jumping back and forth between relationships.
You may want to think about counseling for yourself and for your current marriage. See what is lacking in your life before involving another person.
...and as always - end one relationship before jumping into another.
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yregna
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Thank you for posting and demonstrating exactly the kind of woman a man shouls screw, but NEVER marry. Of course, like most women, you didn't take marriage very seriously...Why should you ? After all, you get the money either way, eh ?
You are worth a huge amount of contempt, nothing more...The world, and especially your children, would be better off if you simply stepped off a cliff.
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SRS
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Wow! That was unexpected. Go back under your rock and take your thorazine.
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craya
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I've already been to counseling and am still going. The counseling is what has helped me make up my mind about the marriage I'm currently in.
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craya
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First off, I treated my ex husband like a king and I was a very good wife and mother to my children. My ex husband has had to go through anger management counseling and has made great progress the past 2 years and this is why we split up to begin with. I jumped into a marriage and I should not have.
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PeterPeters888
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I think the past is noy where you should worry about. Just have a good look at the future. Divorcing and start a relationship with your ex husband sounds oke but does it solve your problems. And what if it does not work out. How much damage will course that to your children? Just my two cents....
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Edited by PeterPeters888 (07/11/11 02:30 AM)
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hereiam133
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I agree with you... You cannot Jump between relationships like that you are not only hurting them but are damaging yourself whether or not you see it right now.
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hormonalacne
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You can't cannot keep jumping between relationships, it will only hurt you and your children even more even if you currently think it is best.
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singleguy49
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No wonder why people drink after reading about these problems. Marriage seems to be..... waiting for the bottom to drop out. If I ever got married I'd ask for a pre. Why blow your retirement? Pretty sad. People are so fickle.
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