gr8Dad
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Got it, so we should read into the situation that she is overbearing because she refers to the child as "my son", but we SHOULDN'T read into the situation that she is married to a guy who has a child with another woman, thus making her the stepparent.
You know, if you expect people to regard and disregard various things with an eye for SOME things and a closed eye for others, you should really write the rules DOWN. Because you appear to be making them up as you go.
On the other hand, if you were not CLEAR that she was the step mom, why would you have a problem with her calling the child MY son? I mean isn't that the crux of the issue, that a STEP parent would refer to the child as "MY son"? Now you are claiming she wasn't CLEAR that she was the STEP parent. Either way, once again, you lose.
"You can assume an apology from me, but I assure you that it will not come."
Not surprising.
"I can certainly appreciate others opinions, when they are not derogatory."
Well, considering that you were the FIRST one to make derogatory comments to ME, physician heal thyself.
"Going back to my first comment to now, I have become progressively irritated with gr8dad. Yes, I admit that."
Then LEAVE. I have been here for over a DECADE, do you think some newbie is going to come on here and run me off with half assed comments and unfounded claims? PLEASE...
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Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...
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annatof4
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Again gr8Dad, I NEVER said that she was overbearing. How many times have you misquoted me now? Seriously, all you thrive on is the drama of all of this. As you said, you stir the pot. Well, you stir the pot with misinformation and assumptions. Stirring the pot in a forum is to create a new opinion based off of facts. You go off on tangents. As I have said OVER and OVER. READ the WORDS. I never said that it wasnt CLEAR that the poster is in fact the STEP PARENT. But, she NEVER actually said that she was...with words. WE all had to come to that conclusion based on HOW she described herself. Its not a matter that it isnt clear that she is. You specifically said "STATING" to mean that she said it. Again, I called you out on it and you go off on a tangent.
"Well, considering that you were the FIRST one to make derogatory comments to ME, physician heal thyself." You really must not have the capability of scrolling up. Let me point THAT out to YOU yet AGAIN!!!! Ummm Duuuuuh, "What you have on here is a lot of MOSTLY women who are REALLY insecure about their place in their chaildren's lives" --- AFTER I posted. Therefore, it would be you that made the derogatory comment, hence, my reaction. GOT IT?!?!? No really....DO YOU GET IT NOW?!?!
"Then LEAVE. I have been here for over a DECADE, do you think some newbie is going to come on here and run me off with half assed comments and unfounded claims? PLEASE..." - HAHAHAHAHA *snort* HAHAHAHAHA! Does it matter how long a person has been here? What if Oooooh What if, I simply created a new ID. I dont know why you feel like your opinion is so much better than mine...or others. Giving us all your resume of family law and clearly indicating that you have been on a online forum for a DECADE, doesnt mean squat. I dont know why you feel threatened by me. This is a online forum. Where all opinions can be heard. I have not said that you should leave. I find your welcome to the site warming...in your way.
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gr8Dad
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""What you have on here is a lot of MOSTLY women who are REALLY insecure about their place in their chaildren's lives"
Yep, I said that. Did I say I was referring to YOU, personally? Nope. Oh, but you TOOK it that way. I forgot the rule about YOU being allow to read stuff into a post, and no one else being allowed to do that, my bad.
"I dont know why you feel like your opinion is so much better than mine...or others."
Never said it was.
"Giving us all your resume of family law and clearly indicating that you have been on a online forum for a DECADE, doesnt mean squat."
So now EXPERIENCE means nothing? You must be GREAT at picking professionals..."SO he's been a doctor for YEARS, so what, it means NOTHING!"
"I dont know why you feel threatened by me."
ROTFLMAO, I don't.
"This is a online forum. Where all opinions can be heard."
Yep, mine included.
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SRS
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He has a lot of opinions and experiences (as we all do) but he will never back down. SOmetimes it is best to let it drop and not argue.
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annatof4
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Can you ever just answer?!?!?! "Well, considering that you were the FIRST one to make derogatory comments to ME, physician heal thyself." -- So did your scroll function work and you were able to see that you did say something derogatory first? Just a question. I already know you said it...but, nice tap dance...AGAIN! HAHAHA!
"So now EXPERIENCE means nothing? You must be GREAT at picking professionals..."SO he's been a doctor for YEARS, so what, it means NOTHING!" -- What the hell does this have to do with the issues on here, a online forum???? You OR I could be serial killers for all we know. I will not "pick" someone as a professional based off of information from a online forum. Clouding up the issues with irrelevant things doesnt make them go away.
"ROTFLMAO, I don't." - Then why tell me to leave?!?! "do you think some newbie is going to come on here and run me off" - I never said that was my intent. But, you sure did assume it. Hence, IMO, why I would take it that I threaten you.
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annatof4
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LOL SRS, Yes, you are probably right. :)
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SweetLight
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"Yes, a STEP-PARENT. That's the role you get when you MARRY (ie: get a HUSBAND) with someone whose child has a BIOLOGICAL MOTHER!
I'll assume your apology to Gr8 is forthcoming given the entire premise of your argument is based on your inability to ascertain basic familial roles based on biology versus marriage."
----->Were you not just extremely argumentative supporting the opposite recently? And really, why do you care what time anyone posts?
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finz
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"Idiocy at its finest ;) "
Idiocy at it's finest is claiming one didn't have a choice about moving when one refused to consider the option of moving because she was still boinking and hoping to get back together with the nimrod who rams a 4 yo into an infant car seat. The option WAS there.
Not surprisingly, all it took was a new bed partner to SUDDENLY make the opportunity appear.
Typical.
Predicatable,
Idiotic.
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LexieBelle
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Yes, finz, you're right. Happy Monday!
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LexieBelle
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You know finz? It's more than a little creepy to me that at 5:30 in the morning you're concerned with who I was boinking when and how that fact (or non-fact, since you're a bit off timing-wise but whatever) affected my life decisions.
Really, you should try getting some sleep.. Might improve your demeanor/attitude.
As for life decisions, your glass house is oh-so-fragile, you really ought not be throwing stones.
Now, it's a GORGEOUS day, it's been a FABULOUS weekend, and perhaps you should try to get out and enjoy the day, enjoy life. It's really sad for someone NOT divorced who isn't married to someone who was divorced, and who isn't planning on any of those situations until their kids are grown to be hanging out on a divorce site acting all expert-like. Seriously, find a hobby or something, this one? Is pretty pathetic :(
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