gr8Dad
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"thanks for your opinion but i highly doubt he will get my daughter"
You say, "MY daughter", yet I bet you like that child support check coming in, huh? Keep thiking that way, I have seen more than one parent lose custody because of that piss poor attitude.
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keepingme0810
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i dont get child support. Sorry and i havent asked for any. Its not about the money.
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gr8Dad
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Wow, you should really READ what you write before you post it. In your first post, you state, "The first month it was supervised, now he gets 3 days a week but no overnights. In 2009 when child support was ordered we both had a conference call with the judge because we both were in seperate states."
So child support was ORDERED, but you didn't ask for any and don't get any. He "gets" three days a week, but he DOESN'T get three days a week, because you turned it down.
Sorry, but you are on a board where people have EXPERIENCE in family courts, and your story ain't passing muster.
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keepingme0810
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[quote]Wow, you should really READ what you write before you post it. In your first post, you state, "The first month it was supervised, now he gets 3 days a week but no overnights. In 2009 when child support was ordered we both had a conference call with the judge because we both were in seperate states."
So child support was ORDERED, but you didn't ask for any and don't get any. He "gets" three days a week, but he DOESN'T get three days a week, because you turned it down.
Sorry, but you are on a board where people have EXPERIENCE in family courts, and your story ain't passing muster. [/quote]
CHILD SUPPORT was ORDERED because a DNA test was ORDERED. His child support goes to the state. And i objected to the 3 days because i can not accommodate the 3 days with us having only one car.
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gr8Dad
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Ah, so YOU were recieving government benefits of some sort, and he is paying them BACK with the child support. So you ARE/DID recieve child support, and he IS paying, its just under a different system. Tell me, do your friends enjoy your little "double speak"? You know, the one where HE is a bad guy for having the court fees waived, yet YOU are perfectly okay for collecting welfare?
As for your current behicle problem, NOT HIS PROBLEM. You find three OTHER days to let him see the child. Instead, you are using your lack of a car to deny him time with the child, and not only is that WAY WRONG, a judge will see through your little game. I HOPE he gets the child back.
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keepingme0810
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[quote]Ah, so YOU were recieving government benefits of some sort, and he is paying them BACK with the child support. So you ARE/DID recieve child support, and he IS paying, its just under a different system. Tell me, do your friends enjoy your little "double speak"? You know, the one where HE is a bad guy for having the court fees waived, yet YOU are perfectly okay for collecting welfare?
As for your current behicle problem, NOT HIS PROBLEM. You find three OTHER days to let him see the child. Instead, you are using your lack of a car to deny him time with the child, and not only is that WAY WRONG, a judge will see through your little game. I HOPE he gets the child back. [/quote]
ok thanks for your opinion. And yes i was receiving welfare when i first found out i was pregnant. And I agreed to his 3 days thats the only reason he HAD those 3 days until my situation changed the week after we were with the referee. So thats when i objected to the 3 days. It is his problem if he wont pick up his daughter and i have to meet him. I cant do that without a car. :grin: :grin: :grin:
And also he doesnt want 3 OTHER days because he works and he says he doesnt want to take her the days he works.
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gr8Dad
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"ok thanks for your opinion. And yes i was receiving welfare when i first found out i was pregnant."
Do you think people are STUPID? You were recieving welfare THREE YEARS AGO, and he is STILL paying back the state? Regardless, you ARE recieving child support.
"And I agreed to his 3 days thats the only reason he HAD those 3 days until my situation changed the week after we were with the referee."
Gee, WHY oh WHY would he not trust you to move to Texas...hmmm, maybe because he jumped through your hoops,a nd when he was supposed to get his three days a week, YOU have a problem with your vehicle...BOO FREAKING HOO. That is NOT his problem. If you AGREED to the three days, and it was ordered, you are in contempt of court.
"It is his problem if he wont pick up his daughter and i have to meet him. I cant do that without a car. :grin: :grin: :grin:"
No, it is YOUR problem. And your little "grin" after your post is SO cute, make sure you do that for the judge, they LOVE cocky women who think they control everything.
"And also he doesnt want 3 OTHER days because he works and he says he doesnt want to take her the days he works."
Well, then I guess you need to find a WAY. Because the bottom line is that he WILL get parenting time, and he WILL get overnights. So lets see, you can afford to send the child ACROSS THE COUNTRY for extended parenting time...but getting the kid across the STATE is a huge issue?
LOL, some people just shouldn't have kids.
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keepingme0810
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[quote]"ok thanks for your opinion. And yes i was receiving welfare when i first found out i was pregnant."
Do you think people are STUPID? You were recieving welfare THREE YEARS AGO, and he is STILL paying back the state? Regardless, you ARE recieving child support.
"And I agreed to his 3 days thats the only reason he HAD those 3 days until my situation changed the week after we were with the referee."
Gee, WHY oh WHY would he not trust you to move to Texas...hmmm, maybe because he jumped through your hoops,a nd when he was supposed to get his three days a week, YOU have a problem with your vehicle...BOO FREAKING HOO. That is NOT his problem. If you AGREED to the three days, and it was ordered, you are in contempt of court.
"It is his problem if he wont pick up his daughter and i have to meet him. I cant do that without a car. :grin: :grin: :grin:"
No, it is YOUR problem. And your little "grin" after your post is SO cute, make sure you do that for the judge, they LOVE cocky women who think they control everything.
"And also he doesnt want 3 OTHER days because he works and he says he doesnt want to take her the days he works."
Well, then I guess you need to find a WAY. Because the bottom line is that he WILL get parenting time, and he WILL get overnights. So lets see, you can afford to send the child ACROSS THE COUNTRY for extended parenting time...but getting the kid across the STATE is a huge issue?
LOL, some people just shouldn't have kids. [/quote]
Nothing is ORDERED its a referall just so you understand. Im not in contempt of anything no judge signed anything. Im not OBLIGATED to GIVE him anything other than wednesdays supervised as so ordered. It doesnt matter if HE trusts me or not, I need a JUDGES permission which as of right now as i open my mail i will have the answer too. I only posted this because i had not received my mail yet until NOW. So i will let you know what is ordered the minute i open it thanks. :grin: :grin: :grin:
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gr8Dad
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Nothing is ordered, except for the stuff that is ordered, like child support.
"Im not OBLIGATED to GIVE him anything other than wednesdays supervised as so ordered."
You aren't "giving" him ANYTHING< he is her FATHER, he has a RIGHT to see her.
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keepingme0810
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[quote]Nothing is ordered, except for the stuff that is ordered, like child support.
"Im not OBLIGATED to GIVE him anything other than wednesdays supervised as so ordered."
You aren't "giving" him ANYTHING< he is her FATHER, he has a RIGHT to see her. [/quote]
and he does tomorrow, and every Wednesday there after. UNTIL jan. 2012 when we move to Texas!!! THATS RIGHT IM MOVING!! WOOOOOOOOHOOOOOOOOO. The judge ruled in my favor. and he still does not get any overnights. he gets 3 weeks during the summer and she stays with my mother overnight and he gets her for 5hrs during the daytime. With no holidays!!
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