Kciowan
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Hi need some advise and answers or help..as much as I hate too say it looks like I am going through my second divorce and I am confused on what to do my soon to be x cheated on me and has made me feel that it was all my fault that this was done and the fact that the man she done it with was my so called best friend and we have been split up for going on a year now and it does not seem to be getting any better but as mush as i dont want this to happen i see no way of stopping it but i do know that i do not want to roll over and play dead and let the x get everything like what happen in the divorce from the first I am tired of feeling like the one to be steped on and walked all over and because i am a man i can not seem to find anyone that can help I just need answers on what to do or a group to talk to like make be a place where people who have gone through things like this can just talk I feel like this is eating me alive on the inside and dont know where to turn or what to do ..no i have 2 children that are 6 and 5 and i dont want to lose out on there lives like i did my older two kids Please help.
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samcdonald2
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You seem to be in a difficult situation, but realize that it is not your fault. First you must decide if you want to stay with your wife and try to work on your marriage, or if it's time to move on and end it. For me, if my spouse had cheated with my best friend, I don't believe I would ever be able to completely trust her (or the best friend) ever again, and just move on, as difficult as it may be. If that is your decision, the next step would be to get a good lawyer to fight for your kids, your rights and your property. When it comes to court cases, it's usually the person with the better legal representation that comes out ahead. This doesn't have to be a bitter ending for you, but a brand new beginning instead. [b]Better Days Ahead[/b]
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czolgosz
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Paragraphs and punctuation, for starters. Makes it easier to read.
I'll presume you're like many of us; you make the money, she's mostly worthless, and now you're faced w/ having your kids part-time, splitting half the assets w/ the cheater, and writing her a monthly paycheck for another 10-13 years. And for the cherry on top, she'll likely be shacked up w/ the next dumba$$ man (who is paying for her vag services) all the while collecting from you.
You'll have to make your own personal decision on whether or not you'd like to stay around somebody who'd have sex w/ some other dude. I'd recommend moving on and never marrying again, you're not good at it.
Follow Sam's advice on seeking legal help, but be picky about who you're writing a check for $350/hr to. And lean on family and friends if you have them available. Your mind is probably a mess right now, you'll need some outside perspective.
Good luck, and sorry to hear about you and your children's current situation.
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