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Re: i think im going to lose.. [Re: concernedfather2]
      #759847 - 08/19/11 01:07 AM

[quote]i dont know how she would feel honestly i never asked her but i shouldnt need a lawyer the judge should just make her stay because im here now. And im establishing a relationship with my daughter that could get stronger. If only my ex had to stay. She's on assistance and they both work whats wrong with their lives that they have to move from here? [/quote]

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Ex and her new partner both only work PART TIME. He collects unemployment and she collects food stamps. They are not doing 'good' (as you phrased it in a previous post).

What's wrong with their lives is that they are both requiring financial assistance from the government. The courts and government in your state WANT them to move. Hopefully, they will be able to make a better living in another state. Worse case scenario, they'll require public assistance in the new state.....which still saves money for your state.


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Re: i think im going to lose.. [Re: concernedfather2]
      #759848 - 08/19/11 01:09 AM

[quote]thats not fair everyone makes mistakes. im a wonderful father i just had some things in my life that would come up and i couldnt afford to go see her. But i called and emailed my ex to ask for pictures and to videos. [/quote]


You don't think the judge will think it's odd that you had the time and money to woo a new woman into marriage and you had NO time or money to visit the child that you helped create ?


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Re: i think im going to lose.. [Re: finz]
      #759864 - 08/19/11 09:35 AM

[quote][quote]thats not fair everyone makes mistakes. im a wonderful father i just had some things in my life that would come up and i couldnt afford to go see her. But i called and emailed my ex to ask for pictures and to videos. [/quote]


You don't think the judge will think it's odd that you had the time and money to woo a new woman into marriage and you had NO time or money to visit the child that you helped create ? [/quote]

Very good point.


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