DedicatedDad
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Reged: 09/05/04
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I wouldn't give my kids medications that aren't prescribed, but I wouldn't have called CPS.
I would have set up a med review with the child's Dr. so my ex and I could get the regiment changed to fit the child's needs.
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gr8Dad
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Reged: 06/07/04
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Well, I have asked her a number of times what she did to assure that the child's behavior while at Dad's was being considered, I have yet to get an answer.
But she DID make it clear that SHE had TOTAL control.
-------------------- Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...
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Redlegg
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Reged: 10/05/06
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Yes, she did, and she does, doesn't make it right, I am thinking maybe the right answer is both of them are wrong, no need to call CPS, not now, not yet, or the police. What's done is done, it is time to figure it out. He was wrong for doing it, regardless of his intent. She was wrong fro calling CPS. She now knows there is an issue, and even though she has total control, she needs to work with him to find a solution. Hopefully he will understand not to do it again, but no need to crucify him for what he did, and she knows that Dad needs to be involved regardless of how much control she legally has....
So regardless what she did, or what he did, or how wrong they both are, they need to move forward not do what they have been doing, and get this thing right....
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gr8Dad
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Reged: 06/07/04
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Agreed wholeheartedly. I guess some of it is that having dealt with CPS, and some may deny this, men and women are treated differently.
It may appear that I am excusing HIS actions, and being hard on her, but if HE was here, I would be just as hard on him.
-------------------- Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...
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