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WT4BM
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There is a light at the end of the tunnel

#760946 - 08/29/11 04:44 PM

I know that in the beginning it can be very hard to be divorced. There are so many questions, mostly about "What did I do wrong?" or "Maybe there is something wrong with me?"

Many times the answer is probably the hardest to believe. "There is NOTHING wrong with you."

Does this mean you shouldn't reflect on the relationship and take responsibility for things, but by all means do not beat yourself up. Just forgive yourself, let yourself grieve and then find your bliss.

Good Luck!!!

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Re: There is a light at the end of the tunnel

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#761091 - 08/30/11 06:51 PM

I have never had such heartache. It'd be very hard to hurt someone so badly. I never really been in love and have the other person say they loved me. Its very lonely for me. But if I ever find someone I don't think I'd leave them if I knew they loved me deeply. I'd just try to make it better. I feel deep sorrow for people in such pain.

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#761607 - 09/06/11 09:56 AM

I think taking responsibility includes not blaming either the other person or yourself. Also its definitel better to try and remain on friendly terms with each other, where thats possible.

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Re: There is a light at the end of the tunnel

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#764947 - 10/15/11 09:52 AM

If you dont accept responsibility for your part in it, which does mean beating yourself up, then you are just doomed to do the same thing over and over again.

I think all divorces are 50/50 blamewise, you cant do anything about the other person, but you can work on your 50% before moving forward.

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