X4FryerLiar
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Wow. I need info. Divorcing a man after 9 years of marriage. Found out a year ago he had a whole other life after he left me a Dear Jane note and ran away to the UK to live with one of his x's. Then he sent me a letter a couple of months later with his heartfelt regrets and apologies. I said no way, not again. So he left her and moved in with his next victim. He is in the UK (his citizenship). I don't know where, don't care - except that I want to divorce the rat. I have stumbled over the QDRO and my retirement. I have lost my house, everything I worked for all my life and should retire in a few years. I started my job, pension before we married, but the majority of my retirement savings happened while we were married. He left me with a Durable Power of Attny to sign his name on anything, but my bank ignored it, as did the IRS. So I don't know what will happen. I do not know where he is and will make attempts to find the rat as required for my divorce on the grounds of abandonment, but I need advice on keeping MY hard earned retirement while he spent everything else I could bring in and left me with huge debt and a foreclosed house. Starting over at my age has been tough, but planning for a retirement that doesn't require 50 recipies for dogfood and loving it is my main goal. Any advise?
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Renny
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If you don't know where he is or can't find him you can get a divorce with service by publication. Your retirement fund will remain yours. No QDRO.
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